Black bull needs advice. Should I dominate the wife and her sissified husband, but I am not gay.

[402Charles]

I would be really interested to know when the line is crossed and the guys involved are gay? Having a solo fuck sesion with another guy and cuddling afterwards seems to be well over the line of uncertainy.

I understand your position. For me, the line is when the men identify as gay, and when there is no woman who is part of the erotic element.

In the situation I mentioned, the bull was very dominant and verbal. He liked humiliation, and he knew I had never done it. He correctly thought it would be humiliating to be summoned to his place. I didn’t want to do it, but did because my wife basically said “don’t mess up my relationship.” Cuddling may not be the best word. More like spooning because he is a nice guy—I took it like a champ and he chose that position to give me relief with his hand. It was ideal because I was embarrassed to look at him, to be perfectly honest.

 

[Mywifelovesthis]

Go for it if you want. If you don’t no big deal either.

 

[Small cock boy]

I'm a blk dom, and former member of this site. I left this interracial lifestyle, but fell back into it.

Long story short, I joined a site call fetlife which has been awesome btw ,and have met some wonderful people. The sex has been great, and I am straight but I think I may be attracted to all feminized white folks. I have gotten a bunch of offers from the woman I am fucking and the woman I have yet to have sex with to also fuck their sissified feminized husbands. I have also not declined anything from submissive white transgendered woman who are extremely passable.

I have sex chatted with a few couples. I don't think my dick has ever gotten harder or more erect to the offers that I have been given. I have been offered by a few cuckold couples to be my sex slaves and they will allow me do anything sexually to them that I want. The husbands from all the couples are very feminized, and passable I a few might possibly be trans. The couples have offered me to take turns sucking me off. My cock can use both their assholes; wife and sissified husband. I have never fucked a man's asshole but I can imagine the prostate (p-spot) can't be that much different from a woman's g-spot. All of the couples say I can cum where ever I want. I can cum on the wife's face, in her mouth, in her pussy, in her ass, on her husband's face, in his ass etc. I am not gay, and like I said the husband's are very feminine.

I haven't done anything yet, only chat and the redhead I am on and off with is on standby. Right now, her husband just sends her to me and sometimes calls and listens to her getting pounded but they both want to serve me.

Currently, I am only having sex with white women but the thought of dominating a couple is a turn on as long as the husband is passable for a woman while were having sex.

I have been watching pornos, and have been fantasizing about dominating couples and TGs. I would love to make a CD sissified husband suck his wife's cum off my dick. I enjoy dominating white women right now as I have 3 cum slaves now. I have also been watching alot of Amber Blank videos where her bull is now fucking her and her CD husband wishing I was the one fucking them both. I found a video where alot of muscular dominate black men have been fucking TG white women very passable and making them cum hands free. I am addicting to dominating, and pleasuring. It gives me a sense of empowerment.

However, I do not want to be gay. I am very masculine in real life, I shoot guns, practice MMA, into fixing cars, working out etc but the thought of pulling my cock out of a sissified white husband's wife's pussy and sticking it in his ass and make him moan like his wife is a turn on.

I fantasize about kissing his wife holding her in my arms while I fuck his sissified ass, or making them tongue kiss while they are both sucking me off, or while I am fucking his wife he is licking my balls. Again, these husbands are passable and rarely any masculine features.

What should I do?

You could humiliate me anytime in front of my girlfriend. We love that

 

[TSJenny2021]

I understand that in some middle eastern countries it is not gay if you are the top.

 

[BigPapa]

having the husband suck your cock is not gay it is just part of being involved with a cuckold couple. The wife is dominant and it makes it much easier of you have the husband lick her while you fuck her, clean your cock and cum and even fuck his face since it will please her

Any same sex sexual interactions , is considered Bi or Gay sexual interaction .

I find some transwomen attractive but going down that rabbit hole as a hetero man is not what you want in the long term period .
We are part of the Great Diaspora , we have a expectation to uphold .
Don't let another culture of people warp your view and distort things .

 

[AnnieS]

If a man is masculaine or femine has no bearing. If you are attracted to them then you have bi-gay leaning tendencies.

 

[tomtomjim]

Any same sex sexual interactions , is considered Bi or Gay sexual interaction .

I find some transwomen attractive but going down that rabbit hole as a hetero man is not what you want in the long term period .

maybe some people do and who are you to tell others what to do since you are willing to fuck other men's wives and all sorts of things that are considered wrong. Nice to have morals when you really willing to ignore them. How would you feel if a beautiful woman gave you an incredible blow job and then found out she was a man . I suspect you have a fragile ego that depends on your dick size

 

[JemmaNye&Herbi]

A while back, I made the mistake of talking here about the difference between being attracted to members of the same sex, and being open to having a same-sex experience for other reasons, without sexual attraction. There are a lot of people on this site who seem to think "gay" is some kind of incurable disease you catch from varying levels of contact with other men. There are also lots of gay men in denial on this site, who are sexually attracted to black men and don't want sex with women (sometimes their own wives), but can't admit that to themselves, so they claim they're not gay because they learned this great new word "cuckold."

I myself am not sexually attracted to other men, and I am hyper-attracted to women of almost every body type. So I identify as primarily straight. But I'm also submissive, and get off on the idea of being dominated. Some of the countless submissive activities and ideas I've enjoyed have included having my sexual autonomy taken out of my control by my wife, who is someone I trust to dominate me in a sane and safe way. I like having her dictate the frequency and type of orgasms I'm allowed to have. I get off on obeying her wishes even if that means doing something I normally wouldn't seek out myself. I've been leant to other women without her consideration of whether I find them attractive, and left locked in chastity, with the instruction to be an obedient servant. I've been told to clean her up after another man has cum on her ass or belly. I don't enjoy the taste per se, but I am aroused by the thought of being used like this, and that overrides my hesitation. I've been told to fluff a few of her bulls. I fantasize about her and other women doing me with a strapon. Those are straight fantasies. I've taken one guy in the ass at a sex party at my wife's instruction, and thoroughly enjoyed being that submissive, but I don't typically have fantasies about sex with other men, unless it involves doing my wife's bidding. I don't see a man and think, "he's hot, I think I'd like to have sex with him," and the thought of making out with a man is a little uncomfortable to me. The only times I've done it, it felt awkward and isn't something I'd seek to repeat on my own, though if my wife decided she'd be turned on by watching me do it and told me to, I'd do it again with enthusiasm. The thrill for me is in many ways heightened specifically BECAUSE what I was doing sits outside my normal comfort zone. I like being a good submissive and don't have many limits in terms of what I'll do for my Goddess.

So what am I? I'm not gay, as I'm not sexually attracted to men, but I've definitely had and enjoyed homosexual and bisexual experiences, so I can't really say I'm strictly straight. If you consider bisexuality as a sliding scale, as Kinsey did, I'm in the "mostly heterosexual with some homosexual tendencies" side of things, so slightly bi, I guess?

Some people on this site are going to insist that I'm gay because I have tried the things I've tried. They're wrong in my opinion, as gay and bisexual are not interchangable words. My wife is the most attractive person I've ever been with, and everyone I've ever found physically desirable was female, but I have no issue with people trying to say I'm bisexual since I don't strictly rule out sexual experiences that involve men. The conundrum is for others to worry about, not me.

The way I choose to identify is as a primarily straight but open-minded submissive male, who's lucky enough to be married to a beautiful, sexy, open-minded bisexual cuckoldress. Who cares what anyone else wants to call us? Questions like "does this make me gay" are silly. No activity makes you gay, sexual attraction to members of the same sex is what makes you gay. Being interested in having sexual encounters with members of either sex probably puts you somewhere on the spectrum of bisexuality, but it doesn't mean that a switch got flipped and you're no longer a masculine, dominant person. There's no need for any new labels and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If you think you'll enjoy it, try it and see. If you find out you don't, stop doing it. If you find out you love it, keep doing it. It really is as simple as that. If nobody gets hurt (any more than they enjoy the pain) and everything is consensual, I say do whatever gets your rocks off. You'll be the same person you were before, with more experience under your belt.

 

[BiSubCuck]

The couples that I am talking to say they will let me cum anywhere I want. I think I'm to go ahead and go through with it. Im going to go ahead and fuck both of them but cum inside the CD sissy husband's ass. Just to get it all out of my system. If I don't like it, I got it all out of my system and will go back to regular cuckolding; if I do well I guess I am a Bi top.

I wouldn't call you Bi or Top. I would just say youre a true Bull. One of the best

 

[BigPapa]

maybe some people do and who are you to tell others what to do since you are willing to fuck other men's wives and all sorts of things that are considered wrong. Nice to have morals when you really willing to ignore them. How would you feel if a beautiful woman gave you an incredible blow job and then found out she was a man . I suspect you have a fragile ego that depends on your dick size

Im not talking to you Mister White leftist , absolutely don't care what you have to say .
I'm talking to a member of my own community .
Here's the truth , if he and you was standing on a bridge ready to jump.

I would talk him out of it .
But you , I would pull out my phone .
What you eat don't make me ******* .
Keep your effeminate S.I.G.N. Language to yourself

 

[tomtomjim]

if you are going to fuck another man's wife in front of him why not go all the way and have him suck your cock and balls and even fuck him. one advantage is that it will make it easier for everyone since there will be no jealousy or hesitation and it will make it easier to have a long term relationship and men can learn to give good blow jobs because they have bigger mouths and stronger necks so they can suck more

 

[Mrkitcoon]

If you're having sexual contact with men then it's inherently homosexual but do you care? If it's consensual and it feels good, why not do it?

Being masculine has nothing to do with being straight.

Is your name a smashing pumpkins reference?

 

[avaadore]

Is your name a smashing pumpkins reference?

It is indeed

 

[Mrkitcoon]

It is indeed

That's my favorite song, other then zero

 

[tdv]

No man, don't ever let a cuck suck your dick! Then he's gotten out of YOU something that HE wants. ......don't ever do it unless YOU want it done.

 

[QUEEN4BBC]

I'm a blk dom, and former member of this site. I left this interracial lifestyle, but fell back into it.

Long story short, I joined a site call fetlife which has been awesome btw ,and have met some wonderful people. The sex has been great, and I am straight but I think I may be attracted to all feminized white folks. I have gotten a bunch of offers from the woman I am fucking and the woman I have yet to have sex with to also fuck their sissified feminized husbands. I have also not declined anything from submissive white transgendered woman who are extremely passable.

I have sex chatted with a few couples. I don't think my dick has ever gotten harder or more erect to the offers that I have been given. I have been offered by a few cuckold couples to be my sex slaves and they will allow me do anything sexually to them that I want. The husbands from all the couples are very feminized, and passable I a few might possibly be trans. The couples have offered me to take turns sucking me off. My cock can use both their assholes; wife and sissified husband. I have never fucked a man's asshole but I can imagine the prostate (p-spot) can't be that much different from a woman's g-spot. All of the couples say I can cum where ever I want. I can cum on the wife's face, in her mouth, in her pussy, in her ass, on her husband's face, in his ass etc. I am not gay, and like I said the husband's are very feminine.

I haven't done anything yet, only chat and the redhead I am on and off with is on standby. Right now, her husband just sends her to me and sometimes calls and listens to her getting pounded but they both want to serve me.

Currently, I am only having sex with white women but the thought of dominating a couple is a turn on as long as the husband is passable for a woman while were having sex.

I have been watching pornos, and have been fantasizing about dominating couples and TGs. I would love to make a CD sissified husband suck his wife's cum off my dick. I enjoy dominating white women right now as I have 3 cum slaves now. I have also been watching alot of Amber Blank videos where her bull is now fucking her and her CD husband wishing I was the one fucking them both. I found a video where alot of muscular dominate black men have been fucking TG white women very passable and making them cum hands free. I am addicting to dominating, and pleasuring. It gives me a sense of empowerment.

However, I do not want to be gay. I am very masculine in real life, I shoot guns, practice MMA, into fixing cars, working out etc but the thought of pulling my cock out of a sissified white husband's wife's pussy and sticking it in his ass and make him moan like his wife is a turn on.

I fantasize about kissing his wife holding her in my arms while I fuck his sissified ass, or making them tongue kiss while they are both sucking me off, or while I am fucking his wife he is licking my balls. Again, these husbands are passable and rarely any masculine features.

What should I do?

My cuckold husband is straight and even if I want him to suck my bull’s cock he won’t do that but he will clean my pussy and eat the black bull’s cum from it. I can’t imagine him being fucked by my black bull and I won’t ask him to either as long as he keeps cleaing my pussy or asshole from my black bull’s cum.

 

[tomtomjim]

My cuckold husband is straight and even if I want him to suck my bull’s cock he won’t do that but he will clean my pussy and eat the black bull’s cum from it. I can’t imagine him being fucked by my black bull and I won’t ask him to either as long as he keeps cleaing my pussy or asshole from my black bull’s cum.

lol why push a good thing further than it needs to and by the looks of things husband cleans a lot of cum

 

[AnnieS]

I wouldn't call you Bi or Top. I would just say youre a true Bull. One of the best

The minute another mans mouth is wrapped around his dick or he pushes it in another mans ass he's moved over that line to being Bisexual. That's my opinion.

 

[425olds]

If you visit a gloryhole and had your dick sucked you dont know who did the sucking guy or girl. It's a blowjob doesn't make you gay or bi

If her husband is willing to service you go for it

 

[Broc lee]

Bruh letting me suck your dick is homosexual and you know it just like sleep with another man is. You wouldn't have asked if you didnt know. Chances are United as dominant as you think you are for the sole fact you have to ask us what you should do.
That being said we all freaks on here so if you want to fuck a man and his wife stop fooling yourself talking about its what the wife wants.it clear its hat you want you just dont want the criticism that comes with being a gay black guy. But you are gay and you know what it's already no one cares. Do what you want and be true to yourself. Who knows you find out you like getting fucked by men just a m.j much as you wan to fuck one.