Hello there, I'm nate. Im 34 and live in a small corner of Idaho. This was a terrible place to be when you spend part of your youth realizing that you enjoy the look, the feel, and the motion of another cock in your hand. My first non-heterosexual encounter was with a friend of mine as a young, after enjoying porn together. Several years later, I had the realization that I enjoyed the look, feel and motion of another cock in my mouth (but that's another story). As the years went on, I've noticed I've only really been attracted to white men, and have gone out of my way on occasion to avoid situations where I might encounter bi or gay people of color. After some discussions with a friend and her wife (a black woman), we came to the idea that, while not inherently racist, my idea of preference should change.
I believe at this point that bi/bi-curious and gay white men should give non-white men (in particular black men) more attention regarding sex than just sticking with other white men. It is also important for me to show solidarity with black men by accepting advances from black men. Bi/bi-curious, straight or gay, white men need to be open to eliminating their preference, and accepting sexual advancements of black men is a great way to do this.
I hope to find people in this group that think along the same lines, and maybe help me set up my first interracial encounter with a bi/bi-curious or gay black man.
I believe at this point that bi/bi-curious and gay white men should give non-white men (in particular black men) more attention regarding sex than just sticking with other white men. It is also important for me to show solidarity with black men by accepting advances from black men. Bi/bi-curious, straight or gay, white men need to be open to eliminating their preference, and accepting sexual advancements of black men is a great way to do this.
I hope to find people in this group that think along the same lines, and maybe help me set up my first interracial encounter with a bi/bi-curious or gay black man.