Becoming Black Owned

Wife here -

Thanks for keeping us updated. This is something I've been hesitant about doing in my marriage.
Thanx! It is an experience worth doing, but also youre right to be hesitant.
As Dsoul says you need to find the right guy. Problem is, i suppose, where to find the right bull/master. I just let the guy i was seeing own me, and thats not been perfect. But on the other hand i would be wary of being owned by a master advertising himself online or craigs or wherever, in case he had alterior motives.
But if you can find an experienced black guy who knows how to own and control a woman, then the sex can be amazing. X
 
Thanx! It is an experience worth doing, but also youre right to be hesitant.
As Dsoul says you need to find the right guy. Problem is, i suppose, where to find the right bull/master. I just let the guy i was seeing own me, and thats not been perfect. But on the other hand i would be wary of being owned by a master advertising himself online or craigs or wherever, in case he had alterior motives.
But if you can find an experienced black guy who knows how to own and control a woman, then the sex can be amazing. X
My fear is letting it effect my marriage negatively. I know I am probably not set up to be owned while married since I would probably let my feelings get mixed up in it and that would cause trouble.
 
My fear is letting it effect my marriage negatively. I know I am probably not set up to be owned while married since I would probably let my feelings get mixed up in it and that would cause trouble.
That is always a worry. I began having feelings for a guy last summer, i got very close to him, almost like a 'boyfriend'. I didnt want that again, thats why i think being 'owned' can actually protect against that. If you are the 'property' of a guy, and he treats you as such, then there is less chance of warm, lovey feelings for the guy.
I do have an emotional attachment with my owner, but its more of a 'hope hes going to be good tonight' feeling rather than any 'love' type feeling. X
 
Maam, wish I could dress you up before you go to meet your owner.
That would be nice, I am on sexy clothing sites like 'Lovehoney' etc many times in the week trying to decide which new clothes to buy that will please Owner.
So you woukd be very welcome looking through my wardobes with me, helping me choose the sexiest ones, then checking my make up and nails.
You would be totally responsible for me pleasing my Owner!
 
That would be nice, I am on sexy clothing sites like 'Lovehoney' etc many times in the week trying to decide which new clothes to buy that will please Owner.
So you woukd be very welcome looking through my wardobes with me, helping me choose the sexiest ones, then checking my make up and nails.
You would be totally responsible for me pleasing my Owner!

Yes, maam. I would love to do all that stuffs for you. I will choose the sexiest outfit, do your hair, make up and nails. Find out the sexiest heels. You will look so damn sexy that your owner won't wait for u to take off your clothes. He will be in action as soon as he see you. When, your owner will be done with you I will be more than happy to clean you up, message your tired muscles, all in all make you look like a QUEEN again.
 
Yes, maam. I would love to do all that stuffs for you. I will choose the sexiest outfit, do your hair, make up and nails. Find out the sexiest heels. You will look so damn sexy that your owner won't wait for u to take off your clothes. He will be in action as soon as he see you. When, your owner will be done with you I will be more than happy to clean you up, message your tired muscles, all in all make you look like a QUEEN again.
Thats good bboi, I always want to keep Owner pleased so you would have to work hard. As for cleaning me, he causes a lot of mess down below, you would have a lot to clean! But am pleased you would love to help me becoming the full Queen of Spades I can be!
 
Hi, been off for a while after signing my ownership contract on 9th Aug 14 and what a busy time Ive had! Me, Owner and hubby met in a hotel room (that hubby paid for of course!) for me and Owner to sign the contract. Lots of nerves and excitement but I gladly signed myself over to my Owner, amazing feeling completely putting myself in the hands of a guy to do with as he feels.
Straight away he fucked me long and hard in front of hubby, I was looking at hubby as we both knew he would not be allowed to have sex with me during the 6 month term of the contract unless Owner allows it. Since that night Owner has made full use of me and all of my holes almost every night. In fact most week nights I have gone straight to Owners from work, and although cleaning is not part of the contract, I usually clean his place as cant sit in a mess. Then spend the evening doing all sorts of sex, which has got progressively rougher as we've gone on.
I was pleased as he introduced me to his friends, but he did have to mention I was his property which was a little embarrassing! And, yes, he has shared me with one of his mates, my first time with two men. Found this fun but a bit hard work keeping up with two younger, fit guys!
Positives- lots of regular, strong sex with a fit black guy, no decisions to make, feel quite 'special'.
Negatives- having no control at all regarding the sex, Owner can do what he likes to me, not having sex with hubby (although this is part of the thrill for both of us) and not seeing family for days at a time.
Hubby finding it a bit of a strain, not so much the lack of sex but me not being there, I am allowed to pleasure him with my hand when he does what he's told!
Contract is for 6 months but Owner can cancel earlier, I cant cancel unless I pay a 'fine' of £700. Only problem with this I think Owner will get rougher with me to try getting me to pay the fine.
I have always been wary of photos with me with a guy but will try and put a couple on here soon as am quite proud of how far me and hubby have come in last 21 months or so.
Had a night off tonight and have had nice night with hubby, will try get on here to update bit more. X


LOVE IT!!!
HOW HOT IS THIS MIGHT NEED TO CONSIDER
 
Hi, been off for a while after signing my ownership contract on 9th Aug 14 and what a busy time Ive had! Me, Owner and hubby met in a hotel room (that hubby paid for of course!) for me and Owner to sign the contract. Lots of nerves and excitement but I gladly signed myself over to my Owner, amazing feeling completely putting myself in the hands of a guy to do with as he feels.
Straight away he fucked me long and hard in front of hubby, I was looking at hubby as we both knew he would not be allowed to have sex with me during the 6 month term of the contract unless Owner allows it. Since that night Owner has made full use of me and all of my holes almost every night. In fact most week nights I have gone straight to Owners from work, and although cleaning is not part of the contract, I usually clean his place as cant sit in a mess. Then spend the evening doing all sorts of sex, which has got progressively rougher as we've gone on.
I was pleased as he introduced me to his friends, but he did have to mention I was his property which was a little embarrassing! And, yes, he has shared me with one of his mates, my first time with two men. Found this fun but a bit hard work keeping up with two younger, fit guys!
Positives- lots of regular, strong sex with a fit black guy, no decisions to make, feel quite 'special'.
Negatives- having no control at all regarding the sex, Owner can do what he likes to me, not having sex with hubby (although this is part of the thrill for both of us) and not seeing family for days at a time.
Hubby finding it a bit of a strain, not so much the lack of sex but me not being there, I am allowed to pleasure him with my hand when he does what he's told!
Contract is for 6 months but Owner can cancel earlier, I cant cancel unless I pay a 'fine' of £700. Only problem with this I think Owner will get rougher with me to try getting me to pay the fine.
I have always been wary of photos with me with a guy but will try and put a couple on here soon as am quite proud of how far me and hubby have come in last 21 months or so.
Had a night off tonight and have had nice night with hubby, will try get on here to update bit more. X
What is the latest?
How long on the original term?
 
What is the latest?
How long on the original term?
Hi, the contract was for six months from August 9th so technically its over 9th of February. Ive been surprised over last couple of weeks that Owner hasnt seen me more and had his last few wild moments with me, but im stopping over his this weekend so I will see what he has planned!
Its been fun, totally allowing a younger, black guy to do what he wants. It has also, however, been quite hard work at times being prepared to go round his at a drop of a hat, then sometimes after getting ready he says not to etc.
Ive told hubby, and he agrees, im going to have a rest after this finishes. But we're planning on going to the next Black Mans Fan Club at a fetish club in March. Either just for a good night out, no strings attached with a guy there, or to meet a new ongoing guy. We'll see X
 
Hi, the contract was for six months from August 9th so technically its over 9th of February. Ive been surprised over last couple of weeks that Owner hasnt seen me more and had his last few wild moments with me, but im stopping over his this weekend so I will see what he has planned!
Its been fun, totally allowing a younger, black guy to do what he wants. It has also, however, been quite hard work at times being prepared to go round his at a drop of a hat, then sometimes after getting ready he says not to etc.
Ive told hubby, and he agrees, im going to have a rest after this finishes. But we're planning on going to the next Black Mans Fan Club at a fetish club in March. Either just for a good night out, no strings attached with a guy there, or to meet a new ongoing guy. We'll see X
So how do you look on this now that the contract has expired?
 
So how do you look on this now that the contract has expired?
Thanx for asking.
Its been six months of fun at times, but hard work other times. Although my 'owner' didnt always take it as seriously as I would have preferred, I did. Ive done everything he asked me to do sexually, Ive been waiting for him at the end of a phone to ring and order me round or not, Ive not had full sex with my hubby in all that time.
The sex has been great at times, quite fun not having any say in what a guy wants to do, but rough at other times.
Am I glad its over? Yes, I can chill out for a bit. Would I do it again? Possibly but with an older guy who knows what hes doing. And certainly not for a while.
Im looking forward to a night of fun, and hopefully get hubby working again this Valentines Night (good timing!) and take some time out till March when we're planning on going to a Black Mans Fan Club night for some fun! X
 
Wow - thank you so much for this post. One of the hottest things I have read. To have such an honest insight to this experience is a privilege - thank you.
 
Thanx for asking.
Its been six months of fun at times, but hard work other times. Although my 'owner' didnt always take it as seriously as I would have preferred, I did. Ive done everything he asked me to do sexually, Ive been waiting for him at the end of a phone to ring and order me round or not, Ive not had full sex with my hubby in all that time.
The sex has been great at times, quite fun not having any say in what a guy wants to do, but rough at other times.
Am I glad its over? Yes, I can chill out for a bit. Would I do it again? Possibly but with an older guy who knows what hes doing. And certainly not for a while.
Im looking forward to a night of fun, and hopefully get hubby working again this Valentines Night (good timing!) and take some time out till March when we're planning on going to a Black Mans Fan Club night for some fun! X
Looking forward to hearing about your experience at Black Mans Fan Club night!
 
As a Dom and former owner of several slut I can speak from experience the only mistake you made is selecting a young ower
Completely agree with you. I was seeing the guy anyway and I was really in to the 'owned' idea. It was me that suggested it to him, we both had input in the contract and he took full advantage of the situation and why not?
I told him, especially at the beginning, about sites like this he could join to get more info, and about 'black masters' etc but as far as im aware he didnt look any of it up.
I think hes missed an opportunity, he could have used me to learn more about becoming a 'Master' and how to get in a girls head etc for the future but didnt.
Enjoyed the physical sexual side but missed the 'psychological' side of being owned I think X
 
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