Be careful of this lifestyle, it will change you and her
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For many men and couples, cuckolding should remain a fantasy. Is some moments of intense sexual pleasure worth the ruination of a marriage? Take to heart that old saying. Be careful for what you wish for. As it may come true.
It’s a bittersweet story but it seems as though your love and respect for each other is intact. That’s the most important thing. Even with the regrets you will always have those great memories and she will too…even if it’s not something you discuss together now. It informs who you are as individuals and as a couple. It’s part of your bond.
this is exactly the truth, nothing but the truth
And I know what I m talking about !!
Once you step into this world you must be ready, physical and mentally , it might be 2 or 3 hours of pure sex but then comes the mind working regret when you look at her and all you see is that black guy YOU brought in fucking her like you never have , see her suck his dick soo hard you cum just watching her . See her in her sleep thinking is she dreaming of him
Again its a experience of a lifetime, but are you ready for it
Again its a experience of a lifetime, but are you ready for it
He shouldn't get mad and should be glad that you're getting the sexual pleasure you need. Maybe you should let him watch you fucking hung black guys.
Of course it changes the life situation.
Especially when you need to hide it from family.
She struggle with it sometimes but, I dont think she ever regret it. She looks happier than ever at the moment so thats really nice.
She just need to be creative why being away from home.
Especially when you need to hide it from family.
She struggle with it sometimes but, I dont think she ever regret it. She looks happier than ever at the moment so thats really nice.
She just need to be creative why being away from home.
Most of us know that seeing your wife happy and knowing you have contributed to that by encouraging her to be more is so very important.
Not my wife but its the same. And it feels great to have helped her to reach that happiness
Agreed
You are loser
Most are here for money simple as that. They create fansonly it’s a lot of bs
Who did you wrong?
I agree to a point. I don't think most on here have onlyfans but I will never pay to go on onlyfans to watch porn.
I think there are enough reports from real couples to attest to the immediate change in marital dynamics once another, larger, more aggressive, more virile man takes his woman.
Good post, pvak, it's a nice peek at reality. In the first few months after she told me of her relationship with her lover (open marriage and we avoid the word "bull" as it implies a "breeding" scenario.....) the marital sex we were having was almost a frenzy in between her overnights with him. Over time, her relationship with him grew deeper and our marital sex grew more predictable - she was just making sure she didn't forget about my needs. Lovingly going through the motions with me, although she always claimed to enjoy me (we weren't into the extreme cuckolding scenarios that so many guys are obsessed with thus no humiliation about penis size, "can't feel you," and so on). But the changes go beyond sex, - it takes time to conduct a relationship, plans have to be modified to accomodate the relationship - when her lover was in our home, I had to sleep elsewhere (move my stuff, etc.), family and other activities put off or rescheduled - not always what I had in mind for the weekend and a change from what she and I had previously planned. Although sometimes annoying, the "addiction" always had major influence on our thinking. And my wife quickly learned that sharing intimacies of her relationship with him would arouse me no end and lead to sexy little intimacies with me. We are older now and although we agree we'd do it all again we'd be much wiser about how to get the most of it. And we can laugh at some of the mishaps. I think a cool thread for our blog would be targeted at older couples, and how, looking back, they currently view the fun they had while "in the game."
That's so true! The relationship changes irreversibly, but that doesn't mean you need to stress up. Your role is different now and you need to understand that "fucking her brains out" is not a part of it. There is a bull assigned to the "Superman" role who's probably much better on it and that's why you guys sign on it in the first place! He's the one who ought to be assertive and dominant because you guys gave him your "red cape", remember?
I understand that it might take you some time adjusting to the new reality, but you're delusional to think you can undo this and be your old sex-machine self. Even if you could, you need to accept that your wife's sexual standards have massively changed since the last time you shaked her world. Do you really expect your dick would still give her a thrill, after all these mind-blown orgasms she experienced with her regular BBC bull? No way mate, this "train" is long gone now!
So instead of hallucinating about "having a comeback" and being able to fulfil her needs, try focusing on lifting up your "after care" game, which is equally important for both of you, not just emotionally but physically too! Gentle love making sounds perfect for starters and I'm sure that riding those sloppy seconds is something you both enjoy. If you want a piece of advise though, the only way to give her some serious pussy-shiver is with your tongue, not penetrative sex. So even if she's hesitant to verbalise it yet, there is a likely a secret expectation that eventually you'll find the courage and go down on her and do what cuckolds are supposed to do.
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