Tinytim2020
Male
Lol LeafOnTheWind you don’t have to answer. But if you’d elaborate more I’d be happy to hear lol
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Try watching some more videos together and see if it continues to be something fun. Maybe introduce a dildo but allow her to use it without you being able to help. See where it goes from there. You never mentioned what caused her to go back to white men.
Tinytim2020
Male
Well I’m pretty hung for a white guy at about 7” and thick too. That had something to do with it. I also used to rap in college when we met and played basketball a lot. I love hip hop lol maybe I’m the closest to a black man without actually being black. I guess most don’t go back to white guys after experiencing the bbc superiority?
It's not so much that as if it was a specific reason that changed her mind so you would know to take that into a count or avoid when trying to pursue this.
Tinytim2020
Male
I see what you mean. She said she was only in it “for the sex with them, I just loved that attitude and approach”
Tinytim2020
Male
Her and I MAY have sex about 3-5 times a month.
Best case then just keep feeling out the moments and seeing if she is wanting to go further or wanting to step back and be patient.
Tinytim2020
Male
Based on what I said, do you think she is into the idea? Based on your experience, will any white cock be comparable to a bbc?
She seems to have enjoyed the time you spoke of. She could have been just enjoying the moment. Repeat occurrences will tell you more about how she feels about it.
It's more than just the dick. It's the stamina, the attitude brought to the bedroom, the aggressiveness, the taboo nature. All of that comes into the experience and yes there can be some white men who are great at sex and even big in size. If that is all she is looking for than any race can be comparable. A way to demonstrate it is comparing a real dick against a dildo. I can get a dildo in any size, shape, and color I want and essentially it does the same thing a man's dick is going to do. So why then keep having sex with men and just not stick to my dildos alone? There is something added to it that is more than just an object.
Tinytim2020
Male
I guess I misspoke. I was referring to being with a black man compared to white lovers. Not just the Dick size. She is reluctant to open up about it to me though. Maybe afraid to hurt my feelings? She won’t tell me much about that time in her life.
That is just a matter of preference and that will be on a person by person basis. I don't know how she is as a person but maybe that was a time in her life when she was very promiscuous and out there sexually and maybe she did some stuff that was slutty and she wants to keep that to her.
Tinytim2020
Male
God I wish she would tell me lol she fucked 5 guys on the basketball team in college. Wonder if she was ever shared or took more than one at a time
It could be possible. A lot of us have those moments where we are just out partying or are looking for that instant gratification and when we look back we say what the fuck was I doing.
Tinytim2020
Male
Well it def wouldn’t bother me at all if she told me lol I want to get to know her slutty side...even it is never with me
Well it might not bother you but she has to be the one ready to share that information.
That's hot! Thanks for taking the time to answer my question."Take this big Black Cock" is probably my favorite. I love a Black man that talks ******* in bed. Makes me instantly wet.
If that's what you guys both want then go for it. Just because a couple likes the IR scene does not mean they have to do all of those other things. My husband would never wear a "cuckcage" (good luck finding one that would fit him) we don't do humiliation or degridation. We just like great sex. At the end of the day it has to be what you as a couple are comfortable with
Tinytim2020
Male
I’d be totally comfortable with all those things. I like exploring my submissive side with her. No other woman has turned me on when they took control during sex but with her it’s amazing. I would love to see her submit completely to a dominant black man and him make me be “their” servant of some type
Thanks for the great feedback from all the hotwives here! My wife and I experimented with some hotwife play a few years ago. She tried out having a fuck buddy and came back and told me all the details. Over a span of a few months this continued and it was very hot for both of us. I loved being with her afterwords, we were very connected and close, and the sex (with her and him) and her and I was amazing. She always played alone with him which I was Ok with. After a few months, she stopped seeing him, and eventually confessed to me that she got worried she was liking it "too much", thinking about the sex and wanting it more all the time.
Fast forward a few years and we still talk about it some, but she insists she does not want to play any more. We have good sex, perhaps not as frequent as I would like of course. I have also introduced the idea of trying a black bull to her since that first experience as I know she attracted to black guys. While she will acknowledge this and has occasionally mentioned a good looking guy to me, she will not move forward in any direction.
What I am wondering at this point is what your thought are on a woman just stopping like this? Is there any chance she opens up again? I know I need to not badger about it and do my best on that, and also know she needs to be comfortable, confident and secure in our relationship which I work on. My male brain can't quite wrap around the idea that given this open freedom and knows it will make me happy to experiment again she still would never want to partake, but maybe that is the case. What do you think @kcwife4bbc and others here?
Fast forward a few years and we still talk about it some, but she insists she does not want to play any more. We have good sex, perhaps not as frequent as I would like of course. I have also introduced the idea of trying a black bull to her since that first experience as I know she attracted to black guys. While she will acknowledge this and has occasionally mentioned a good looking guy to me, she will not move forward in any direction.
What I am wondering at this point is what your thought are on a woman just stopping like this? Is there any chance she opens up again? I know I need to not badger about it and do my best on that, and also know she needs to be comfortable, confident and secure in our relationship which I work on. My male brain can't quite wrap around the idea that given this open freedom and knows it will make me happy to experiment again she still would never want to partake, but maybe that is the case. What do you think @kcwife4bbc and others here?
I agree with this scene being a real turn on.
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