Ask A Hotwife

LeafOnTheWind

Female
From
US
So looking around and talking with some people questions come up for all of us in regards to being a hotwife or getting into the cuckolding lifestyle or just trying interracial sex for the first time. The problem is that most people turn to porn for answers or get an answer from some horny person sitting behind a computer living vicariously through what they read and watch online. I want to start a thread where people can go, both men and women, and ask a real question and get a real answer in regards to some of these things. So please below ask the questions you might not know where to ask and I can try and answer them or I am sure there are plenty of people on here who can help you with an answer. If I don't know maybe I can ask someone I know in the lifestyle as we'll call it and maybe they will know. If it is something too personal feel free to PM me and we'll see what we can come up with. I encourage people to ask questions and I encourage other members to help these people find answers to these questions.
 
Hotwifing, sounds great at first glance but how often does it lead to marriage or relationship breakdown or the wife getting her sexual needs met entirely elsewhere? How many hot wives still respect their husbands afterwards?

I think it’s a risky thing to open up. Am I wrong?

I Def agree it is very risky and can lead toa ruined marriage. But if done right and you can find what works for you it is great. My wife is a hotwife and I a hot husband. Nothing comes close to the sex my wife and I have with each other.
 
Hotwifing, sounds great at first glance but how often does it lead to marriage or relationship breakdown or the wife getting her sexual needs met entirely elsewhere? How many hot wives still respect their husbands afterwards?

I think it’s a risky thing to open up. Am I wrong?
It will with time lead to your wife more or less getting most if not all of her sexual needs met by her bulls. So be ready that you will eventually not (in general) be having much sex with your wife. If you are good with that then go ahead. Most guys will not be able to handle to handle it.
 
It will with time lead to your wife more or less getting most if not all of her sexual needs met by her bulls. So be ready that you will eventually not (in general) be having much sex with your wife. If you are good with that then go ahead. Most guys will not be able to handle to handle it.
Sure, and that doesn’t sound very attractive. I couldn’t go down a road that left me celebate in my own marriage. It would have to be condition
 
Hotwifing, sounds great at first glance but how often does it lead to marriage or relationship breakdown or the wife getting her sexual needs met entirely elsewhere? How many hot wives still respect their husbands afterwards?

I think it’s a risky thing to open up. Am I wrong?

Hotwifing can be a lot of fun and can bring you and your wife closer together. Being in this lifestyle you have to learn to not just talk to each other but to communicate on a deeper level. There has to be total trust between the both of you. I know this lifestyle has drawn my husband and I closer together. We have learned to not only talk to each other but to make sure we are on the same page. We talk through things and take time to make sure that we are both comfortable with this lifestyle. This lifestyle can be very fulfilling for all involved.

As for respecting my husband afterwards, I not only respect him but admire him for encouraging me to be the best hotwife/slut I can be.
 
It will with time lead to your wife more or less getting most if not all of her sexual needs met by her bulls. So be ready that you will eventually not (in general) be having much sex with your wife. If you are good with that then go ahead. Most guys will not be able to handle to handle it.
I don't think you can make a blanket statement like that. We have a great sex life, always fuck after a BBC party and on some days when she is not partying. I think the idea of cutting off the hubby is part of the cuck fetish fantasy. It's not required at all.
 
How did your husband handle it the first time watching you? Did it create any jealousy that first time?
We had a threesome the very first time so no single person was on the sidelines and my husband said he found it very erotic. Outside of that he doesn’t do much watching because he says watching just makes him want to do so when it comes to others we tend to play on our own.
 
Hotwifing, sounds great at first glance but how often does it lead to marriage or relationship breakdown or the wife getting her sexual needs met entirely elsewhere? How many hot wives still respect their husbands afterwards?

I think it’s a risky thing to open up. Am I wrong?
No you are not wrong and it can be very similar to juggling knives and not wanting to get cut. You have to make sure your family comes first and that the stuff outside of that is for fun and enjoyment. As a wife you can’t neglect your husband in favor of other men because it can cause a lot of problems. You have to have an open and completely honest dialogue with each other and respect that dialogue. It is not for everyone and will not work for everyone.
 
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