You just described my wife perfectly.
are ther truly women who prefer small dick/can be satisfied by one?
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PREACH!!!!!!
Annie S - good *******.
like anything, being a good lover is a skill. You need to gain the knowledge and technique to be really good at sex. Every husband has an advantage, their ability to know their wife and what makes them feel good. Explore her body, find out what parts of her body cab be sexually stimulate by the tough or tongue (her body is yiyr playground), be seductive and masculine (competent and confident) and realize that fucking like you are listening to an AC/DC song ain’t the way. You gotta R&B that pussy, while licking and touching the parts of the body the drives her crazy.
well said dude. hate for it to go down like that for a smaller sized man, but you make some really great points
I had no problems sexually satisfying women with my average size dick. I always try to make them orgasm at least 4 times before I cum.
I'm not sure I understand the question. Who starts an exclusive relationship with someone they've never even seen naked? I'm a little under 6" on a good day. my wife definitely knew that long before she married me.
That's another question altogether. My wife had been with men who were bigger than me, but had never experienced an 8 inch cock until after several years of marriage to me. She learned she was a size queen, and I'd be lying if I said it hasn't changed our relationship at all, but it didn't make her love me any less, so it's not something I ever want to deny her. She'd stop if I truly wanted her to, but I'd seriously have my work cut out for me, trying to deliver the kind of orgasms I've watched her have with bigger men, especially given that she hates dildos. But I give her average orgasms with my average dick, great orgasms with my mouth and fingers, and we love each other enough to get creative when we have to. It's fair to say she didn't marry me for the dick.
That's going to be up to the women in question. If it's true you don't see a lot of diversity where you live, it seems reasonable to guess that not a lot of women in your area have a ton of experience with massive cocks. If that's the case, women who see what you're working with and choose to be with you anyway may be more motivated by other factors. And ones who've experienced bigger partners and are still choosing to give you a chance should be treated to your best self, not someone who worries about not looking like a BBC porn star. I know it's easier said than done, but my personal advice is not to dwell on it if it makes you uncomfortable. Try to focus on making a woman feel special, and using your strengths to make her happy, rather than worry about what she thinks of what you see as shortcomings. If she's seen you naked once and gives you another chance to hang out, no point in worrying about your size beyond that point, right?
Or, if you can handle it, @BiSubCuck 's advice is great, too. Finding a woman who's honest about loving the feeling of being with bigger men, who will share that experience with you and love for who you are (and not trying to be something you're not) can be extremely rewarding. I'd much rather be with my wife, who loves me deeply but prefers larger cocks than the one I came with, than trying to find a woman who doesn't prioritize sex and "settles" for my average endowment. Happy wife, happy life!
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No. I do not prefer a small cock and can never be satisfied with a small cock.
But note:
I can never be satisfied with just a cock, no matter how big or small.
I (like all women?) do not want to be with a cock, regardless of size.
I prefer a man, preferably a REAL MAN, not a cock.
The man's personal qualities are always more important than the size of his cock and if I am to appreciate him in bed and be satisfied, if he is to have the chance to be my lover, then it is necessary that the man has both skills and the personal qualities that I like.
But note:
I can never be satisfied with just a cock, no matter how big or small.
I (like all women?) do not want to be with a cock, regardless of size.
I prefer a man, preferably a REAL MAN, not a cock.
The man's personal qualities are always more important than the size of his cock and if I am to appreciate him in bed and be satisfied, if he is to have the chance to be my lover, then it is necessary that the man has both skills and the personal qualities that I like.
If we assume that he is only meant to be my lover, not husband, he has the desired skills, and I limit myself only to the size of his cock, then I prefer that he is well equipped, preferably also very well equipped.
Then girth is much more important to me than just the length and preferably with a prominent head / helmet with a large circumference.
This often feels extra nice against my g-spot, feels more awesome to play with with both hands and mouth, and it is also visually very appealing to me.
One reflection on personal qualities, in my experience is that well-equipped men often seem to have certain qualities that I really like, such as that they have such an impressive BDE, Big Dick Energy. This can often make me curious about a man and it can even make me excited.
Maybe there are men with small ones who have personal characteristics similar to BDE, but I have never met anyone.
Limited to size only, I therefore prefer a well-equipped man to be my regular lover. However, a man of average size may be preferable if he has superior skills and characteristics.
But I have to be honest and say that a man equipped less than average is unlikely to get the chance to become my regular lover.
All the women I have talked to over the years about this topic usually share my opinion, more or less.
Then girth is much more important to me than just the length and preferably with a prominent head / helmet with a large circumference.
This often feels extra nice against my g-spot, feels more awesome to play with with both hands and mouth, and it is also visually very appealing to me.
One reflection on personal qualities, in my experience is that well-equipped men often seem to have certain qualities that I really like, such as that they have such an impressive BDE, Big Dick Energy. This can often make me curious about a man and it can even make me excited.
Maybe there are men with small ones who have personal characteristics similar to BDE, but I have never met anyone.
Limited to size only, I therefore prefer a well-equipped man to be my regular lover. However, a man of average size may be preferable if he has superior skills and characteristics.
But I have to be honest and say that a man equipped less than average is unlikely to get the chance to become my regular lover.
All the women I have talked to over the years about this topic usually share my opinion, more or less.
This is us exactly! We started going together she was 13 and I was 15 our first intercourse was when she was still 14 I lasted about 20 seconds before cumming we both thought it was just because it was my first time, well needless to say things didn't get any better.
We married when she was 19 and shortly after I took her to adult store that was on the way to a party we were going to at a friend's place to pick out a toy for herself (back then there was no internet shopping) she choose a rather large black one, we weren't at the party very long and she said to me I'm ready to go home and gave me a wink.
Once we got home we were both naked and in bed in a flash I lubed up her new toy and slid it in,it wasn't long before she had her very first vaginal orgasm she was so overwhelmed that she actually cried a little from here on we new things would never be the same.
In my experience definition of small is different for everyone. Average dick size in studies is between 6-7in. 7in + is above average from what I've researched. As a black guy the stereotype isn't true black men have average dick sizes. I've played with couples and have seen actual small dicks on husbands 2in full erect that's small.
The sad reality for women is that 80% of the male poulation of the world are small-average...so that means a majority of the human population has nothing but suffering to look forward to.
Either that or every big dick man will have tens of millions of women chasing after them.
I find it hard to belive that nature would have allowed small dick men to procreate through the generations if a big dick was such a huge importance for a womans sexual pleasure.
Are you sure you´re don´t have a big pussy yourself and that´s why you want big dicks so much?
AgreeIt’s how you use it that’s as important as size is.
if you are small and quick to cum you are going to have a hard time fulfilling a woman's needsCanning101
Male
Maybe your Pussy is far to big possibly overused etc that you cannot find satsification woukd say 99.9 per cent of women don’t have the problem you are experiencing or maybe you struggle to pull any decent guys which is another story
@AnnieS yes and that is exactly what I have done. But eventually, a lifelong medical condition hinders performance and removed my desire for penetrative sex. It really is not worth the effort. So, all I have to offer are a dirty creative mind and olympic oral skills
Some men are just mean't to be a cuckold.Not my wife. That’s why she fucks our Black neighbor and I suck cock.
You do not have to be worried little man, if you are a good man with good personal qualities then there is probably a woman somewhere in the world who would like you, even though you are equipped less than average.
Hope your reading ability is not so low that you missed that I wrote very clearly that for me too, the man's personal qualities and his skills are more important than the size of his cock.
You must try not to get sad just because I personally prefer a well-equipped man, note that I am clear that I prefer the big one only provided the man has the skills and has such personal qualities that I like.
If you try to read again, you will see that I like to cuddle with a big one both with my lips and with my hands, I also like stimulation on my g-spot. You should try to understand that my mouth, hands and g-spot have nothing to do with the size of my pussy.
Hope my post makes you feel less worried about your own small size or about your lack of skills.
Obviously you did not manage to read my first post. I am kind and help you and I repeat my words:
The man's personal qualities are always more important than the size of his cock and if I am to appreciate him in bed and be satisfied, if he is to have the chance to be my lover, then it is necessary that the man has both skills and the personal qualities that I like.
I can never be satisfied with just a cock, no matter how big or small.
I (like all women?) do not want to be with a cock, regardless of size.
I prefer a man, preferably a REAL MAN,
not a cock.
Canning101
Male
5.5 inches not touch your worn out Mersey tunnel but thankfully it would not even want to (droop)
Minger
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I once had a very good and loving relationship with a man who according to my guess (I have never measured any cock) was about 13 cm in length, about like you. He was a very good man, with good personal qualities and a very attractive appearance, and he was also an interested and skilled lover. There was love but our relationship ended for completely different reasons.
5.5 inches not touch your worn out Mersey tunnel but thankfully it would not even want to (droop)
Minger
So we had nice and satisfying sex, he felt nice in my pussy (despite 13 cm).
But if I respect the subject of the thread and therefore limit myself only to the size of his cock (which felt nice in my pussy) then it was not very exciting visually for me and it did not cause emotional storms of excitement when I played with it in my hands and in my mouth.
But this did not stop me from feeling love for the man.
What is it that is so difficult for you to understand?
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