are ther truly women who prefer small dick/can be satisfied by one?

my own experience ofc cannot be taken as evidence but holy hell I've been dating for 27 years and not once I've ever made a woman cum by penetration. every girl I met never said she has a size preference or is a size queen, but some of them are always hypnotized when they see a big hard cock (be it in porn vids or outside). It seems to me that they wanted to be nice and polite to not hurt my feelings but they cannot hide what they really want.
I tried as hard as I could but the best I ever got was some soft moans and that's it. Between that and visiting this site and realizing how some men (mostly black) are just built different and better when it comes to fucking..... It turns me on but also horrifies my sex life to the point where I'm paranoid enough to think if I got a gf she might cheat on me with alpha guys given the right context.

would love to hear what you ladies and gentlemen think or experienced.
 
my own experience ofc cannot be taken as evidence but holy hell I've been dating for 27 years and not once I've ever made a woman cum by penetration. every girl I met never said she has a size preference or is a size queen, but some of them are always hypnotized when they see a big hard cock (be it in porn vids or outside). It seems to me that they wanted to be nice and polite to not hurt my feelings but they cannot hide what they really want.
I tried as hard as I could but the best I ever got was some soft moans and that's it. Between that and visiting this site and realizing how some men (mostly black) are just built different and better when it comes to fucking..... It turns me on but also horrifies my sex life to the point where I'm paranoid enough to think if I got a gf she might cheat on me with alpha guys given the right context.

would love to hear what you ladies and gentlemen think or experienced.
All women are different. Some women don't like big dicks slamming around in them and prefer the average.
 
my own experience ofc cannot be taken as evidence but holy hell I've been dating for 27 years and not once I've ever made a woman cum by penetration. every girl I met never said she has a size preference or is a size queen, but some of them are always hypnotized when they see a big hard cock (be it in porn vids or outside). It seems to me that they wanted to be nice and polite to not hurt my feelings but they cannot hide what they really want.
I tried as hard as I could but the best I ever got was some soft moans and that's it. Between that and visiting this site and realizing how some men (mostly black) are just built different and better when it comes to fucking..... It turns me on but also horrifies my sex life to the point where I'm paranoid enough to think if I got a gf she might cheat on me with alpha guys given the right context.

would love to hear what you ladies and gentlemen think or experienced.
Now I've said this before, I am no dick whisperer, and I'm not a meat gazer. However I will tell you this much, your confidence is probably one of the best weapon you can have in your arsenal. But also it's good to be realistic. So what if your dick is small, that's okay but I guarantee you you just need to learn the right techniques of what to do with it. Look, I don't even come close to some of the slingers and billy club swingers here. But do I let that stop me? I sure don't. All I'm saying, is learn to use what you have and be proud, because unless you get a dick transplant, you are stuck with it. Trust me , there are tons of guys with big dicks that can't do ******* with it. As mentioned by another poster, there are women that welcome a small dick. Hang in there, she will turn up. Good luck.
 
I have been into the cuck things since 15, had my first relationship at 19, then started meeting coulples to cuck for. 10 years later and at 30 I have had 2 other relationships over a 1 year each and one for 2. I have flown to cities to meet women and still talk to women on tinder/pof/bumble about the cuck thing daily.

But I have very little experience with regular and even the few times I had the chance it fucked my mind up so much that I didn't even get hard. So I looked into penis enlargement and found that penis extenders are FDA approved way to increase size. Also, pumping and weight hanging can help with girth. I started a little over 6" but I'm just under 7" after about 1 1/2 which was 3 years ago. It takes time but it works. Looked into red light therapy and L-arginine


 
thank you all for the replies. It is helpful and interesting to know more about your previous experience and what led you to this fetish.
I think darkjumper is spot on with my problem. Having a small dick and watching alpha male driving women to endless orgasms did not help with my confidence and surely did a number on my morale. I guess I did let porn and fetishes affect my mindset more than I should, so that's something I need to work on.

Cheers.
 
I know plenty of women who do not like big cocks! They do not like the idea of being stretched open and they are not into that deep gut punch ✊ that a big hard cock can give to their cervix.

Once I had a woman tell me to push my cock inside of her as deep as it can go so I slid it in until I hit the wall 🧱. Then she took her hand 👌 and wrapped it around the rest of the shaft that was left over and she told me "the rest of this cock is not even necessary"!🤣😂

It's funny because when I am in the gym all kinds of women of different age, ethnicity, and body types stare and give me that look like they want to come and get this workout but concerning half of them I just sit and think 💬 "all she is gonna do is run the whole time and waste alot of this meat"! You know how some parents tell their ******* what they can't order at the restaurant saying "you're not going to eat all that so no you can't have it"! That's how I think about alot of these women giving me that look in the gym like they want this strong 💪 muscular BBC having guy!😂🤣
 
I'm sure some girl somewhere likes small dicks for sure but I've never met her. Me and my friends pretty much agree that 7/8 inch dicks are perfect but bigger can still be alot of fun too.

But at 7/8 inches they look amazing, make it easy to orgasm with and leave you nicely stretched afterwards, just perfect.
Come hang out ;)
 
I know plenty of women who do not like big cocks! They do not like the idea of being stretched open and they are not into that deep gut punch ✊ that a big hard cock can give to their cervix.

Once I had a woman tell me to push my cock inside of her as deep as it can go so I slid it in until I hit the wall 🧱. Then she took her hand 👌 and wrapped it around the rest of the shaft that was left over and she told me "the rest of this cock is not even necessary"!🤣😂

It's funny because when I am in the gym all kinds of women of different age, ethnicity, and body types stare and give me that look like they want to come and get this workout but concerning half of them I just sit and think 💬 "all she is gonna do is run the whole time and waste alot of this meat"! You know how some parents tell their ******* what they can't order at the restaurant saying "you're not going to eat all that so no you can't have it"! That's how I think about alot of these women giving me that look in the gym like they want this strong 💪 muscular BBC having guy!😂🤣
I've had girls complaining on hitting too deep as well.
Others just don't care or enjoy it.
It is what it is. There will never be a one fits all.
 
I know plenty of women who do not like big cocks! They do not like the idea of being stretched open and they are not into that deep gut punch ✊ that a big hard cock can give to their cervix.

Once I had a woman tell me to push my cock inside of her as deep as it can go so I slid it in until I hit the wall 🧱. Then she took her hand 👌 and wrapped it around the rest of the shaft that was left over and she told me "the rest of this cock is not even necessary"!🤣😂

It's funny because when I am in the gym all kinds of women of different age, ethnicity, and body types stare and give me that look like they want to come and get this workout but concerning half of them I just sit and think 💬 "all she is gonna do is run the whole time and waste alot of this meat"! You know how some parents tell their ******* what they can't order at the restaurant saying "you're not going to eat all that so no you can't have it"! That's how I think about alot of these women giving me that look in the gym like they want this strong 💪 muscular BBC having guy!😂🤣
A longer cock takes time for the cervix to pull up out of the way and it will go deeper and give her a different type of orgasm. Slow and steady not a ram rod wins to go balls deep.

So the quick fuck you probably won't hit bottom but a long slow fuck session you'll be balls deep.
 
Plenty of women don't like huge or enormous ones. Obviously many women would like something at least around the average of 5-6in erect length and 4.4-4.7in erect girth (circumference). After all, that is how humans evolved (for all men, regardless of race, to be in that size range) so it makes sense that this size works well. There's an evolutionary mechanism driving this observation.

I personally know of many women who don't like super-extra long ones. Furthermore it's almost unanimous among women that girth enhances the odds of orgasm through penetration (namely b/c it stimulates the clitoral nerve network, both anterior & posterior vaginal canal, as well as external vulvar excitement, especially the clitoral hood which is innervated by stretching caused from extra girth). The main problem with super long ones is they tend to jab the cervix which is unpleasant & painful for the female.

The unaroused vaginal canal is only 2-3in deep and with full arousal it expands to ~4.5in up to ~7in (at upper extreme - with some outliers just like anything else).

This is also why anything beyond 7.5in length is pretty much "wasted". Even 7in is starting to get too long for many women, or practical purposes, depending on their genetics. At 7.5-7.75+in there is no way you are going to the hilt except with some rare occasions, unique anatomy, or certain positions (e.g. that allow the uterus to tilt or shift away slightly).

Most of the size queen stuff is psychosomatic anyway. That isn't to say it doesn't matter at all, but, nonetheless, it is psychosomatic and not *really* physically necessary.

Nearly 70% of women (it hovers closer to ~66-67% in studies -- so ~2/3rds) need at least some direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm.

Point being? For up to, or over, 2/3rds of women you could have the most beautiful cock, aesthetically pleasing, uniform shape, perfect skin texture & zero discolorations, and, let's say a size of, ~7.5-8in length by ~6.75-7in girth and even then without clitoral stimulation they are not going to properly orgasm if you don't know what you're doing. 🤔🤷🏻‍♂️

So, going back to the OPs question... "are there women who prefer small ones?"

I think it's a lot more accurate to say some women don't mind a smaller one, or especially an average sized one, as opposed to saying they "prefer" or "like" one to be small?
But when it comes to, "can they get off?". Absolutely... without question.

As I said, size queen mentality is largely a psychosomatic condition. And regardless, 2/3rds+ of women need clitoral stim to achieve orgasm. Beyond that it's also not even close to remote, or uncommon, that certain women can't orgasm AT ALL from penetrative sex.

Hope this helps give some perspective. 👍🏻☺️
Nice write-up. You don't acknowledge the Anterior Fornix erogenous zone. Thoughts on A-Spot (AF zone) orgasms?
 
Now I've said this before, I am no dick whisperer, and I'm not a meat gazer. However I will tell you this much, your confidence is probably one of the best weapon you can have in your arsenal. But also it's good to be realistic. So what if your dick is small, that's okay but I guarantee you you just need to learn the right techniques of what to do with it. Look, I don't even come close to some of the slingers and billy club swingers here. But do I let that stop me? I sure don't. All I'm saying, is learn to use what you have and be proud, because unless you get a dick transplant, you are stuck with it. Trust me , there are tons of guys with big dicks that can't do ******* with it. As mentioned by another poster, there are women that welcome a small dick. Hang in there, she will turn up. Good luck.
REALLY? Take a look at my pics and tell me that I am able to satisfy my wife or any woman for that matter! I definitely belong in panties and deserve to be a sissy cuckold!
 

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My friends who have married small make up for it with dildos (7 to 10 inch). I know of a few couples that married small and claim not to have a dildo but also say they're not very interested in sex and just love their husband. Those same people haven't been with many men either or even married their first one, so maybe they really are happy and haven't experienced big ones.

So they are out there, but as far as I know they don't have sex a lot or even care about it.
 
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