Advice needed trying to enter this lifestyle..

[mw29]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

 

[Jellycapone]

Get her a black dildo order it and pretend you didn't realise the colour see how she takes to it

 

[bullrun42]

Id help but im too lazy to write rn so if you need help write me in private and Ill share some guidance when Im more alive than dead. I was in a grinder so I need to rest

 

[MagicMikeATX]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

No disrespect but you need to talk to an expert.

 

[dragonman]

Let her go at her own pace and I will just step in as needed.

 

[bullrun42]

No disrespect but you need to talk to an expert.

Couples counselors or sexologist would give very confounding advises. Id suggest a psychotherapist, but not freudian. They d be saying you like penises too much, unironically.

 

[blackdickwitht]

I really don't get asking black men for help in this scenario. You know your wife, go talk to her. Say you want to spice up your marriage.

 

[mw29]

Great thoughts,

 

[mw29]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

 

[hubby75]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

We're in the same boat. I wish nothing more than see my desperate wife satisfied by a real man.

By the way - funny profile pic.

 

[Torpedo]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

If you can't satisfy her with your cock then learn to use your tongue. Oral skills are at least as important as fucking skills. You say she isn't satisfied, how do you know that for sure? Have you discussed it? Many people that getting in to sharing their spouses do so with the idea of fixing their relationship. It nearly never works, If you want to bring an additional person or persons into you your relationship you need to have a solid relationship to start with. This means communicating. You apparently haven't even been able to discuss your sexual fantasies. The first thing you need to do is sit down with your wife and put your cards on the table. Tell her how you feel and why and see how she feels. If you can't at least do that you are likely headed for a train wreck.

 

[mw29]

If you can't satisfy her with your cock then learn to use your tongue. Oral skills are at least as important as fucking skills. You say she isn't satisfied, how do you know that for sure? Have you discussed it? Many people that getting in to sharing their spouses do so with the idea of fixing their relationship. It nearly never works, If you want to bring an additional person or persons into you your relationship you need to have a solid relationship to start with. This means communicating. You apparently haven't even been able to discuss your sexual fantasies. The first thing you need to do is sit down with your wife and put your cards on the table. Tell her how you feel and why and see how she feels. If you can't at least do that you are likely headed for a train wreck.

Amazing thoughts

 

[dragonman]

Think long and hard about this before you do anything rash. This lifestyle might not be what you really want

 

[Vietkill45]

Just see how far you can take this in the bedroom. You'll notice if she wants it to be more than just a fantasy.

 

[mokoko]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..

Sorry to be that guy but she is probably already cheating on you if what you're saying is true.

I'm also "curious" (either being a cuck/bull) and had a situation where my Ex was the one who wanted cuckolding. This life style is problematic because i have the feeling that many women will look down on you once you reveal it to them and won't just see it as being playful. So once you're a cuck she might just dump you. Are you ready for that?

Honestly, I would try more vanilla approach (dildos and penis extenders) before talking about other men. If she is into it then, i would talk to her about it and set strict boundaries.

 

[mw29]

Sorry to be that guy but she is probably already cheating on you if what you're saying is true.

I'm also "curious" (either being a cuck/bull) and had a situation where my Ex was the one who wanted cuckolding. This life style is problematic because i have the feeling that many women will look down on you once you reveal it to them and won't just see it as being playful. So once you're a cuck she might just dump you. Are you ready for that?

Honestly, I would try more vanilla approach (dildos and penis extenders) before talking about other men. If she is into it then, i would talk to her about it and set strict boundaries.

Very genuine and honest in everything i have said

 

[mokoko]

Very genuine and honest in everything i have said

I meant that if you really can't satisfy her, which you think is true, then she is like 90% already taking care of her self somewhere else. Might be Sex, might be flirting.

I would:
- Make sure she is loyal first (like i said, don't be the cuck after she cheats on you... you will hurt yourself - sniff around.
- Buy new toys, try new stuff with her first, dirty talking
- Then... maybe just maybe... bring it up to her. Even the, set very strict rules.

Basically, enjoy your fantasy within your limits.

 

[mw29]

Advice and direction desperately needed by cuckold minded white husband 11 yrs in committed marriage.

I cannot satisfy her with my tiny cock (almost never cums) as we rarely have sex but she is sexual person and still wants me sexually, I need help and guidance on how to persuade her to be with another man (black). She is unaware I want this for her and our marriage but has been talking about bigger cock and black men when i push her in fantasy talk in a joking playfully way. I am desperate for any help please from black men or anyone that can truly guide and help our marriage..