I love you thoughts, Linsey. People see things differently. There is no absolute truth. Has a white woman been blacked if she only performs oral sex on a black man? Has she been blacked if a black man only performs oral on her? What if she gives him a hand job and nothing more? Or vice versa? The boundaries are fluid.
In my opinion the final stage of being blacked occurs when the white woman receives his sperm in her pussy.
When my wife had sex for the first time with her black lover they used a condom. None of us felt that she had been blacked perfectly. That didn't happen, in our opinion, until he ejaculated in her pussy.
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