I suspected my ex was fucking black guys on the side after I had introduced her to black dildos and interracial porn. She wouldn't fuck me or even let me see her naked for months. Finally, she allowed me to fuck her again and before I put my cock in her she asked "is my pussy gaping"? I said, "Yes, who did that to you"? She said, "You did. With those big toys". Yet, we hadn't played with them together in months. It was her way of telling me what she had been up to without actually telling me. A few years later she admitted to having fucked 2 black co-workers. She said they both had "BIG dicks"!!!