Young, married, and REALLY wishing I could get my husband into the whole cuckold thing...

So last night based on the advice I got here I very stumbling and awkwardly asked if he ever thought of watching porn together when we were cuddling and kissing some. He got a little awkward and nervous but seemed sort of eager too which was surprising. So we decided to try it together. When we opened pornhub on our TV literally the first video at the top of page was from Blacked so I just told him I'd click on the first thing and I think because we were both nervous he just said sure. We watched the whole thing together, cuddling. I could tell he was hard and I asked him if he wanted to jack off and at first he said he thought that would be weird but I kept encouraging him and he did.

I would never have tried any of that and it was actually an amazing experience so I'm actually hopeful we can go from here!
Good start! You can expand the dialogue with questions that are not direct but designed to see what he is OK with and open to. You can ask if he liked the stuff you watched the first time...and if he says yes, ask if he would like to watch something similar. Many men are afraid to ask questions of their wives/GFs regarding sex because they don't want to upset them. I'm betting he will be very excited by YOUR interest and let you lead the way...men often love when the woman is the instigator. As you learn more, you can be more direct..."Would you like to see me do that with a black guy?"...or whatever works for you to push the conversation. Good luck!!
 
So yesterday he and I were kissing and cuddling a little and he actually asked me if I wanted to watch porn again and I told him I did and that I really liked the experience. So he sort of just went to the first basic clip again which was this time not interracial and I just applied some advice I received here and attempted to sort of demosntrate my lack of interest which I guess was pretty obvious because he seemed to like the video but he did ask me if I didn't like it as much and I told him it wasn't porn in general I just wasn't turned on by that clip so he asked if I wanted to watch the same one again and I told him "or one like it" and he put one on.

I really tried to make it obvious with my sounds and my body language when I was liking something without going absolutely overboard but he really surprised me and encouraged me to be the one to touch myself this time, which I did, and which he really seemed to enjoy to my surprise.

Afterward we went to go get food and we even talked about how we both thought it was hot and I was honestly just feeling kinda grateful for advice and a place to vent, so... Thank you!
 
So yesterday he and I were kissing and cuddling a little and he actually asked me if I wanted to watch porn again and I told him I did and that I really liked the experience. So he sort of just went to the first basic clip again which was this time not interracial and I just applied some advice I received here and attempted to sort of demosntrate my lack of interest which I guess was pretty obvious because he seemed to like the video but he did ask me if I didn't like it as much and I told him it wasn't porn in general I just wasn't turned on by that clip so he asked if I wanted to watch the same one again and I told him "or one like it" and he put one on.

I really tried to make it obvious with my sounds and my body language when I was liking something without going absolutely overboard but he really surprised me and encouraged me to be the one to touch myself this time, which I did, and which he really seemed to enjoy to my surprise.

Afterward we went to go get food and we even talked about how we both thought it was hot and I was honestly just feeling kinda grateful for advice and a place to vent, so... Thank you!
Perfect. During the talk had you told him your kink?
 
So I am, in a lot of ways I guess, sort of a quintessential basic white girl. I'm 24, and I married my highschool boyfriend two years ago, and he's basically the only man I've been with. For most of my life both of us have been pretty vanilla. Like, not total prudes just sort of plain. I've been in a housewife era this last year and sort of discovered this whole world via porn and all through being bored home alone and all, and I sort of surprised myself by how obsessive I got. I feel like I'm sort of at the point now where I want it to be real so bad that it's driving me sort of crazy. I was googling advice today and found this forum and I don't even know if I'm posting right but I was just looking for advice I guess. Sorry if I did something wrong!
i love to see some ass picures
 
oh wow okay now I'm on a mission haha
If you find one that looks like you and you both enjoy watching it.. say something like, "omg... look how much she is enjoying him; do you think I could take something that big?". I know a lot of white men have a size kink... but don't know how to say it. This gives him an opening, and if he takes it.. you can suggest something like, "Would you ever buy me a big dildo and teach me to take it while we watch videos?".
 
Here's a few tips for you:
There are a lot flavors of couples relationships in the LS so explore and see what fits your vision for where you want to take it with your husband.
(1) Look for few couples that are good role models with strong relationships. Three suggestions to start with are: LuckyFucks (who also have good taste in videos to watch), hotwifesue, and hottdiscreetcp. Hotwife Suzzane is part of a great couple; their videos are on here or on a general internet search.
(2) Use the search by member tool to find "The UBM" and then look for the video posted: "Couples Guide - Love and Intimacy with a BBC"; there's a whole series by the person you made this, Allfantasies. Another video by this person is "Women's Guide to BBC Ep 1 - You Body and BBC", look for it on this site or as a general search.
(3) For a very sensual and romantic;y intimate clip: Search for "Kasinova11" and look for the posting called 'Cuck Action"
(4) Search for member "unevaknow" and look up the posting for "Hubby Cleanup"... very erotic.
Good luck... keep us posted!
 
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