I just wanted to make an observation about this topic. I understand and agree with the goal but must question how this is worded. I do not think a cuckolded white boy should make sexual decisions. Once he has agreed to his wife having sexual freedom that should be the end of it. He may introduce her to black men or make observations but the decision to pursue sex should be between her and the black man or men. PERIOD. If the cuckolded boy does not like it -who cares? It is not about his needs as the primary goal. His needs are met by observation and acceptance. He should not have the right to decide or stop something which could be beautiful and certainly would be something he could not provide. For this to work he needs to give up any idea of power and must do so permanently. Maybe better title for this topic would be "I will decide if I fuck your wife. Will you help?"This is a minor point but I just felt it was right to comment on this in view of the topic title.