We use the lifestyle site SDC mainly. We will always invite twice as many as she wants as half never show up. We use the speed date app on the site and it has always worked well for us. Been doing them for well over 12 years of our 25 in the lifestyle.What a nice slut I mean wife but how the hell can you get that many and in a monthly basis. Wife likes them and she prefers 4 to 6 guys but we stopped doing them because it's hard to set them up plus we have to deal with flakes. How you manage this on a monthly basis we did once or twice a year