I suppose that would depend. If my husband submitted and was enjoying the abuse, then I suppose it would be okay, within the limits of safety. it also depends on the definition of abuse. There’s consensual abuse and non-concensual. I admit to being incredibly turned on seeing my eunuch husband be bossed around and humiliated by my bull. I suppose it is the same thrill he gets seeing me getting fucked and tossed around by my bull. As long as everyone is having fun, what’s the harm? Just my two cents.