Let's say you're a normal cuckold. Nothing extreme. You like watching your wife have sex with black men, and that's it. You know they give her more pleasure than you ever did and you want her to be satisfied. You're not gay or bi. You and your wife still have a good relationship.
But it's not enough for her bull to just have sex with your wife.
Now he wants to totally humiliate you in front of your wife.
He knows your wife has become addicted to his big black cock. He knows he's twice the size of you and gives your wife more pleasure than you ever did. He knows how much you get off on it. He knows you haven't had sex with your wife in months. He has control of your wife and there's nothing you can do about it.
He comes over one day and tells your wife to undress you. She strips you naked, not knowing what's coming next. Now he takes your wifes panties off her and throws them at you. He tells you to put them on, or he won't let you watch anymore. Your wife giggles and says you don't have to if you don't want to.
Would you do it?
I am not a 24/7 full time authentic cuckold so I wouldn't do it for the sake of being a wimp/sissy. My last gf and I agreed to approach the lifestyle in a way that we could turn it on and off as needed/wanted. We started out with one night at a time when she found a bull to go out with, then it went to weekends and that worked out great for a long time so on Fridays after work, she became his and I would submit to them both and it was fun and he was really cool and she loved it but come Monday morning, we were 'married' again and in love and our bull was out of the picture until my we decided to do it again which was almost always the next weekend.
So, at that time, he could not just come over on a weekday without warning, walk in and start being in charge........unless we all agreed on it...and there were several times we did LOL...in fact, usually by Wednesday, me gf was asking me if I wanted to play and of course I did so she'd text him and I'd take her to him for a 'session' and play my cuck role, then when we got home, I'd get to lick her and sometimes fuck and it was great. Our bull lived an hour away so it meant not getting home sometimes until way after midnight and then work would suck the next day but she liked it, and I did too because it was great sex for her and him and I got to be the cuck and clean up and take off my cage to jack off or sometimes fuck my gf but not often LOL.
When we started this, I told him I would only submit during the times we designated as role playing time and that when we were not playing.......we were NOT playing and he respected that. ( I did however agree to be in chastity when she wanted me to be and that time kept getting longer and longer but not more than a week ) This kept my girlfriend's and my relationship protected and my dignity intact because I am a very masculine man and though I'm Beta, I'm not a wimp or a real fag or any of the sissy types...only when I'm in my role or as my gf use to say, 'in the mood'. I love to play that role and its easy to live that role and fall into it too much but its really not me...or if it is, then there are two sides of me.....one that is masculine and one that is feminine. Of course to me, being feminine, sissy, submissive, weak and performing homoerotic acts is humiliating and I absolutely LOVE that!
I told both my gf and her bull that I loved to suck cock in front of her and to be verbally humiliated, called a 'Fag', 'Pussy Boy', 'Queer', 'Cocksucker' etc and they had a great time doing it and ordering me around and having me perform all kinds of demeaning things for their amusement and it was fun and they laughed a lot and so did I. I mean, having a horsetail butt plug is really funny, I don't care who you are.
So, to answer the OP's question, first I could never wear my GF's panties, she was 105lbs........I'm 215. But, if he told me to do something I'd do it. Mostly, he wanted me to bring her to him and then wash his truck or mow the lawn while he fucked my gf, and I did. On weekends, I'd deliver her to him Friday nights and pick her up on Sundays and I wold play my role alone at home, locked up in a cock cage. I loved it.
Second, he didn't really care too much about my likes, desires or wants so he didn't think about my pleasure, he just wanted to fuck my gf but he knew that I was part of the deal and we all agreed that I would always be her bf and part of the deal and that I'd do any legal and safe thing he demanded and I did but he was not too creative and didn't understand or care about cuck fantasies and desires etc. So, I had to tell my gf what I liked and she would get him into it but the fact was that he was uncomfortable with me because he could not respect me as a man.
An alpha male does not and cannot respect a man that is anything less than another Alpha. So our bull truly looked down on me. We could never be friends. We were friendly but not friends. He would never have any respect for me, even outside the role playing scene. He in fact despised me I think and in time he got tired of me being around and only recently, my gf left me for him and I lost her to him completely. I confronted him but he smugly said he couldn't help how she felt about him and he was right. How could I argue. She wanted to be with him and so she is.
This is the second time its happened to me. I lost a wife to a black bull and now my girlfriend and it really hurts a lot. I don't blame her. He is everything we think of when we think of a dominant Alpha black bull...good looking, strong, powerful, intelligent, makes good money, big BIG dick, dominant, charming, charismatic and knows how to fuck a woman..........he had it all. He made her squirt. Apparently, that is a woman's sexual Nirvana.
My gf was hot too........I mean fine........25 years old, slender, long blond hair...a dream. And she fell in love with him. How can I blame her? Her boyfriend moved aside to let another man fuck her and the man he let fuck her was perfect. Not only that, but her bf..me...sucked his cock and liked it. Fag. So, I lost her.
Am I going to change? Yes, probably. I won't ever play this game again, not because its wrong or that I am damaged by it.......I know who and what I am.........but it's not worth it to invest so much emotional energy into a woman that won't stay loyal and I don't think any woman could resist a man like him. I admit, I'm envious of him. I would like to be him but I'm not and never will be so I just have to accept it. As much as I love the eroticism of being a cuckold, in the end, it's not worth it to lose the woman you love over it.