This is one of the few times I've read about a couple in the same situation: the wife goes hairy by request of her lover, while her husband/boyfriend doesn't like it at all! I recognize so much, as I don't get intercourse either. Finally, there is someone in exactly the same situation.
I've enjoyed reading your post. Just like your boyfriend, I only get to eat my wife's hairy pussy. Even after all these years, though I've got used to it, I still miss the feel and look of my wife's shaved pussy and I still don't like it that her pussy is now so hairy. It isn't appealing to me and it makes the clean up with my tongue after she had sex with her lover way more difficult, sometimes it's matted with cum! But she made clear that even trimming it is out of the question, it remains completely natural. Everytime I see her unkempt pussy, her hairy bush reminds me of the fact that I'm not allowed to fuck her. I still eat her pussy a lot of course, it's the only thing I'm allowed to do. I'll do the best I can!
You look a young, confident, sexy woman and I like your photo (that piercing looks good on you!), you don't look like the type of woman to have a hairy untrimmed pussy. I'm sure your lovers appreciate it and it seems you don't mind to have a hairy pussy at all. My wife told me she doesn't even like how her pussy looks with all the hair, but that she can't care because she knows her lover likes it so much. What do you think about the look of your unshaved, untrimmed pussy? I have the feeling you might not like the look of it yourself, but besides pleasing your lover, you seem to enjoy making it hard for your boyfriend, knowing he'd rather eat a shaved fresh pussy than your messy, smelly, hairy cunt.
And do you tease your boyfriend, for example by telling him about how hairy your pussy is now and that you won't shave it for him?