Ive dealt with all of that. Besides the talking you up with no intention on meeting, disappearing the day before, or day of, the actual meetup, but also had a hub who suddenly became jealous once I was with his wife for awhile. He didnt say anything, but I could tell he didnt like that I had his wife for longer than he obviously thought he could handle. I KNOW the wife was interested but he suddenly couldnt handle it and I never from them again. Its hard to meet good, serious people for sure. What I hate most are people who contact you, know they are not what youre looking for, then try to change what youre looking for, despite a clear description of what you are looking for when they first responded. Or, like someone else posted, husbands that try to get you to seduce their wife when they are completely unaware. I actually put in my doublelist post not to respond with such nonsense. But you do have to weed out a lot of fakes to find someone good for you. Its just part of life.