I've been invited just to find out there is no wife and it's just a gay white man who wants black dick and it almost turned into an altercation, smh, I've been invited just to be stood up the day of, I've also been invited and at the moment of entering the wife and hearing her gasps the husband decides he isn't comfortable anymore. The other way around I've been with couples who say they have been stood up by would be bulls. It's the downside of this digitized portion of the lifestyle. Like everything in life you have to take the good with the bad. I suggest to really engage in convos, pay attention to what a person who says they are interested posts (this can tell you a ******* ton about a user), if they are reluctant to exchange pics that's a red flag regardless of the excuse, and try to start initial meetups with something non sexual like drinks, dinner, walk in the park kind of thing. This way both of you (or all of you if it's a couple) can get comfortable with each other and your personalities. Otherwise you're wasting your time.
I've learned not to take anything on here serious until I see undeniable actions being made
