Why is it so difficult for a good looking guy to find a girl that wants to be shared?

[ItrLoverVer5]

Single women who are into black men are going to be dating black men.

I feel like the vast majority of women into "the lifestyle" are women who blossomed into their sexuality and preferences during their marriages.

There are very few single women seeking cucks, they exist but it's going to be a hard find.

They’re scared to lose em. Or they’re fascinated w bbc. Or both. Or another. I’m not ok w it. I’ve been w my girl 6 months. 2 in and I’d been doing it discreetly for years with prohibited chemical. I’d get high, watch everything u can and of course I liked bbc itr. A cuck tho. I’m not a jealous guy. I have a big piece, I’m grateful, But I first told her when I was high one night cuz she had hinted at pegging. I’d never could’ve imagined telling someone that and feeling as good as I did. Thanks to her, talking about how we will see who’s better. Then says, and this goes for anyone regardless of race or pronouns, the vagina is a sacred place when you’re in love. I appreciate that and thank YOU for asking ever since I made the profile I’ve wondered why you’d want to. I couldn’t help but feel disrespect and a loss of, you know that nurture a man needs, most men. I’m BI btw, no denial here. Wide open. I’m in ATL bro n it’s not as bad as you made it sound here. Just go with it. Try it. You might like it. If not, u gotta hit right and they gotta love you. And meet women outside of the swingers community. They won’t be interested. I just hate the stigma. No one believes until I show em lol. I got a couple so anyone want to call me out I’ll show you.

 

[avaadore]

They’re scared to lose em. Or they’re fascinated w bbc. Or both. Or another. I’m not ok w it. I’ve been w my girl 6 months. 2 in and I’d been doing it discreetly for years with prohibited chemical. I’d get high, watch everything u can and of course I liked bbc itr. A cuck tho. I’m not a jealous guy. I have a big piece, I’m grateful, But I first told her when I was high one night cuz she had hinted at pegging. I’d never could’ve imagined telling someone that and feeling as good as I did. Thanks to her, talking about how we will see who’s better. Then says, and this goes for anyone regardless of race or pronouns, the vagina is a sacred place when you’re in love. I appreciate that and thank YOU for asking ever since I made the profile I’ve wondered why you’d want to. I couldn’t help but feel disrespect and a loss of, you know that nurture a man needs, most men. I’m BI btw, no denial here. Wide open. I’m in ATL bro n it’s not as bad as you made it sound here. Just go with it. Try it. You might like it. If not, u gotta hit right and they gotta love you. And meet women outside of the swingers community. They won’t be interested. I just hate the stigma. No one believes until I show em lol. I got a couple so anyone want to call me out I’ll show you.

 

[Acorn]

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[artgirl]

Off hand the question itself may be part of the problem. I've never been impressed by a guy boasting about his looks. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, old saying but true. Beating your own drum too much or too often pushes people away.
The obvious reason to me is based on over twenty years of being a swinger, open marriage whatever you choose to call it. This thing you seek is primarily a male thing. Most women looking for a relationship want a man who wants them, not someone that wants to share them. Those who are doing it are to please their man. At least that's how it usually starts.
First you need a relationship make that a sound foundation before you go with the by the way I'd like it if you fuck other men. She can fuck other men without you with no problem . You start your conversation with that what has she to gain. A place to hang her hat between lovers.
I know there are probably a few women out there who might love having some guy foot the bills while wanting them to have sex with whoever they please so he can get off but they are so few you'd have a better chance of getting the winning lottery ticket.