Why is fucking wives more enjoyable than fucking single females?

Yonkers92

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I’m pretty new in the lifestyle. Just had my second wife a day ago. It seems to me that having sex with married women and their hubbies watching is much more of a turn on than vanilla sex. I’m trying to understand why?
One major reason is probably the intense power dynamic in such a scenario makes me feel more like the dominant alpha male that I am. Any other thoughts?
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Thanks for that perspective. Definitely taking something that’s meant for someone else adds to the excitement of it.

I have to agree with @nottscuck on this. Even from the husband’s perspective, seeing your wife engage in an act that traditionally should be his alone. Seeing her freely give it to another man sparks jealousy in some, but that still comes with intense arousal. For those couples the husband will immediately compete to reclaim their wives. In other cases where sex with the husband has been completely cut off (with all parties consenting I hope) it comes down to the husband handing over the duties of sexual gratification to someone better equipped because he knows he can’t compete.

Have you had experiences with couples that are just not married yet? If so, has that experience been any less because they aren’t married?
 
I have to agree with @nottscuck on this. Even from the husband’s perspective, seeing your wife engage in an act that traditionally should be his alone. Seeing her freely give it to another man sparks jealousy in some, but that still comes with intense arousal. For those couples the husband will immediately compete to reclaim their wives. In other cases where sex with the husband has been completely cut off (with all parties consenting I hope) it comes down to the husband handing over the duties of sexual gratification to someone better equipped because he knows he can’t compete.

Have you had experiences with couples that are just not married yet? If so, has that experience been any less because they aren’t married?

Spot on rubyred , the jealousy itself is arousing and you are doing exactly that , handing over your wife to a better equipped man .
 
I have to agree with @nottscuck on this. Even from the husband’s perspective, seeing your wife engage in an act that traditionally should be his alone. Seeing her freely give it to another man sparks jealousy in some, but that still comes with intense arousal. For those couples the husband will immediately compete to reclaim their wives. In other cases where sex with the husband has been completely cut off (with all parties consenting I hope) it comes down to the husband handing over the duties of sexual gratification to someone better equipped because he knows he can’t compete.

Have you had experiences with couples that are just not married yet? If so, has that experience been any less because they aren’t married?

Ahh thanks for you point of view. Helps! I’m sure it’s also a great feeling for the cuck.
No not yet I’ve only been with married couples. Maybe I’ll have unmarried ones soon. But I still think being with married couples will be more satisfying due to their commitment to each other.
 
For any single women there are lots of men that are ok for sex but really few that are for good for a relationship, so dating for single women is commitment focused. That’s something my wife criticizes on her single friends, they are missing all the fun. Once a relationship rings the security and confidence and emotional containment then any risk taken would be just for the sake of fun.
 
I’m pretty new in the lifestyle. Just had my second wife a day ago. It seems to me that having sex with married women and their hubbies watching is much more of a turn on than vanilla sex. I’m trying to understand why?
One major reason is probably the intense power dynamic in such a scenario makes me feel more like the dominant alpha male that I am. Any other thoughts?
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Thanks for sharing the Bull's perspective. I have always wondered if Black men truly enjoy the cuckold experience of taking a white man's wife while the cuck watches. Or do they just like to fuck and they are willing to tolerate the husband being there but it does nothing for them.
 
Thanks for sharing the Bull's perspective. I have always wondered if Black men truly enjoy the cuckold experience of taking a white man's wife while the cuck watches. Or do they just like to fuck and they are willing to tolerate the husband being there but it does nothing for them.

I personally love having the hubbies there as long as they aren’t try to get in on the action while I’m busy with the wife. The domination of his wife while he watches is a turn on. I think other bulls might agree.
 
Personally I love having cuck/stag/hubby in attendance. Brings out the exhibitionist in me and I enjoy pleasing and using the wife so well she forgets he’s there. Does slutty things she doesn’t or rarely does. And gets totally into being used for my pleasure! Every couple is different but once you identify their boundaries I push right up to the limit of them!
 
Some cuckold couples are interested in being Black-owned. I'm wondering -- does the idea of sexually owning a couple or the wife appeal to Bulls? By sexually owning, I mean you would become exclusive and the wife would belong to you sexually. She would be completely submissive to you and serve you sexually whenever you wanted. The husband/cuck would have a subservient role in the relationship.
 
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