Ok.. so we are gonna get down in the weeds on this one! I had this conversation so so many times in the past with white men and women who were just new to the lifestyle and I explained it like this.
If I gave you the choice of the following vehicles BMW, Mercedes, Any American Car of your choice Ford, GMC, Chrysler, ETC or another import Honda, Nissan ETC.. Price of the Vehicle is not an issue. I would bet my last dollar in the bank most are gonna pic the BMW or Mercedes ( Why ?? ) Because you like the way it handles pure and simple!!.. you can call it what ever you like Swagger, Confidence, Rhythm a little somethin somethin.. We dance different, move different and yes bringing that stick along the way just adds to it. You take all that and the taboo factor drop the mike!!
I am reminded on how Obama had all that swag when he walked into a room.... and you can bet he can lay that pipe!! I have heard many women say I like the way you move. My husband never fucked me like that!
it's just something you can't put your finger on but is just there! Pure and simple all that swag with emotion. Sorry if it hurts but I have been in the room at many a swing party and watched a white guy fucking.... Damn it looks like he is working at it not enjoying it and punching a clock, if I can't see any emotion from what he is doing she can't feel any emotion other than his cock!.