I try to avoid the labels or definitions. It makes no difference if you identify as gay, or bi, or straight curious, sub, dom, or strictly a BBC lover, etc. What counts is that you fulfill your desires and are comfortable with them. Too much mental energy is wasted trying to define oneself. Just do it and enjoy every minute.FUCK!!!! My thoughts exactly, not gay ,but on my bucket list is to experience a BBC gripping my hips, fucking me deep and hard, feeling his nuts slapping me until he juts in and I feel his cock throbbing cum as deep as he can.