That's me as well ... I'm not into the "humiliation" aspects of wife sharing. I believe that the overall experience of sharing a spouse with others has got to be FUN for everyone involved or it just doesn't happen. My wife has no desire (nor do I) of making a swing party frustrating or humiliating for the other ... usually, for days & weeks after a swing, she & I fuck each other like rabbits. But this thing of wanting the "cuck" to wear a cage to deny him orgasms, or to suck a black man's dick clean after he's fucked his wife, or lick a person's asshole ... these things are way, way beyond any enjoyment I would have. Guess we'll just stick with the ole,
boring "vanilla" 3-somes & couple swaps.