Congratulations, Maria! I am so happy for you!I went to an all-black bar with my friend, she it would be easy to meet somebody there. I dressed up, heels and short skirt and showed my tommy. There were 4-5 other white girls there, my friend (she is black) told me to sit on one side of the bar. I meet an older man and I ended up sleeping with him later that night – I was not virgin the next morning.