White couples in the lifestyle..

It must be hard to balance a vanilla marriage to friends, family, and the rest of the world, once black men start entering and taking over the bedroom and your white marriage. I am sure most white wives must lose alot of, if not all respect for their husbands both sexually and otherwise ..

I am very interested to hear about your detailed expressive thoughts on this along with are the husbands also cut off sexually as time goes on with Black men....
 
Every Hotwife/cuckold marriage is unique. It is certainly not a one size fits all lifestyle.

My Fiancé turned me into her very willing cuckold a few months before our wedding. She quickly became addicted to BBC and her sexual interest in me faded away. She still loves me on an emotional level even though virtually all of her sexual satisfaction comes from her extramarital affairs.

It wasn’t until she started pegging me with her strap-on that her respect for me changed. She lost her respect for me as a masculine man but gained enormous respect for me as a submissive sissy.
That's the kind of sweet loving cuckoldry I crave
 
It must be hard to balance a vanilla marriage to friends, family, and the rest of the world, once black men start entering and taking over the bedroom and your white marriage. I am sure most white wives must lose alot of, if not all respect for their husbands both sexually and otherwise ..

I am very interested to hear about your detailed expressive thoughts on this along with are the husbands also cut off sexually as time goes on with Black men....
 
Friends, this is the actual note I’m giving to my Brandi later this morning, we had a rocky no. Sexy weekend, and as you can see I’m going to blame it on myself even though that’s a stretch, but it’ll make her happy to see the thinking, anyway, here is is.
Baby bunny, Mon Cheri, I have something to apologize for and also something to repeat/explain. First, I’m sorry I didn’t get you out of the house enough this weekend, not enough anyway for you to continue enjoying being bbc owned. You know how pent up I get when I need to express myself and I bet. You didn’t get to let your hair down. Plus, when you wanted me to bet into bed Friday night, I’m sorry I was out of it. So please please please remember now to enjoy being bbc owned cunt, tell me next time that you need me to suck your clit because you want to pretend you’re in bed with one of your bulls and you are wishing he was here to fuck you properly, to own your cunt . I know I can’t do what bbc does for you but I was wrong not to suck you off without question. It won’t happen again. You also said that overall I’ve been treating you better lately, doing more things with you, family stuff, etc. well, remember awhile back when.
I promised you that I would love you even more deeply and that I’d be a better husband once you took a black lover or two into our bed? Well, ever since we agreed that you are now a bbc owned cunt and that your fuck holes are no longer any of my concern, I have indeed fallen more in love and am happily your go to for anything I can do to make you more satisfied. It may not have hit you yet, but when you realize you’re using your vibrator less and less , you’ll realize it’s because your black bulls are giving you what you have needed all these years, a proper and complete fucking and servicing not only of your cunt but of your asshole, your mouth and your heart and soul. You’ll feel more complete and then I hope you love me even more. Of course don’t tell your lovers that, they want you to tell them that you love the way they fuck you and that they make you want to whore for them, to dress up like a bimbo for them, to let them empty their ballls on your face on Friday night and make you swallow every drop on Saturday night. Love is in the air. I promised.
 
It must be hard to balance a vanilla marriage to friends, family, and the rest of the world, once black men start entering and taking over the bedroom and your white marriage. I am sure most white wives must lose alot of, if not all respect for their husbands both sexually and otherwise ..

I am very interested to hear about your detailed expressive thoughts on this along with are the husbands also cut off sexually as time goes on with Black men....
We do not find the balancing act to be hard to maintain at all. As was said in another post. You have priorities in life and those come first. For us, sex is a very small part of the overall picture. We both work in professional organizations. We do not do as much entertaining as we would like. However, you make time for those special moments when you want to be intimate with each other or to bring a third party into the picture. Since we live in a gated community we must be discrete and very calculating. But we have an understanding with our bull that he is welcome only when we send our invite. In fact, because we are not able to see our bull all the time, when we do get together, it makes the celebration so much more sexual and lasting. We are both alpha personalities. But in the bedroom she becomes beta and so do I. When her black bull takes control of her body she becomes his whore. Not my words, my wife's. My wife is very specific as to her likes. A younger, hard body, black man, in his late 30's to middle 40's. He must have stamina, a larger stature, and a big, mushroom cockhead with great girth. My wife loves to polish and help the man's cock become fully engorged with *******. You now know the rest of the story.
 
Every Hotwife/cuckold marriage is unique. It is certainly not a one size fits all lifestyle.

My Fiancé turned me into her very willing cuckold a few months before our wedding. She quickly became addicted to BBC and her sexual interest in me faded away. She still loves me on an emotional level even though virtually all of her sexual satisfaction comes from her extramarital affairs.

It wasn’t until she started pegging me with her strap-on that her respect for me changed. She lost her respect for me as a masculine man but gained enormous respect for me as a submissive sissy.
FROM CHRISTINE-
First let me say that we are not complaining. Ray and I are a team.
We try our best to accompany the bull. Even when they're rude and shows up without
calling. Mornings are tough on their own, but young guys need to have their "mornin' wood"
taken care of.

Ray would take care of the children (cartoons usually, volume up) while "mom" deals with
"her black friend". Quick head, a little rimming, then face down, butt up. They usually,
don't take too long. Mouthwash, panty-liner... I'm good to go!

As for the respect thing... after using the dildo on him and then seeing him cum
while he was getting fucked, yeah it was hard having respect for him, sexually anyway.
I don't see him like my lover anymore but rather like one of my best girlfriends that
I share everything with.
Does that make sense?
 
FROM CHRISTINE-
First let me say that we are not complaining. Ray and I are a team.
We try our best to accompany the bull. Even when they're rude and shows up without
calling. Mornings are tough on their own, but young guys need to have their "mornin' wood"
taken care of.

Ray would take care of the children (cartoons usually, volume up) while "mom" deals with
"her black friend". Quick head, a little rimming, then face down, butt up. They usually,
don't take too long. Mouthwash, panty-liner... I'm good to go!

As for the respect thing... after using the dildo on him and then seeing him cum
while he was getting fucked, yeah it was hard having respect for him, sexually anyway.
I don't see him like my lover anymore but rather like one of my best girlfriends that
I share everything with.
Does that make sense?
It makes perfect sense to me Christine. It was an evolution for both of us. My Fiancé (now wife) quickly became addicted to BBC in the months before our wedding.

Her bull convinced her to start pegging me and making me her submissive sissy. I loved being feminized and she loved dominating me sexually. She completely lost interest in me as a masculine lover but loved fucking me with her black strap-on. As her lingerie wearing Sissy, she viewed me more as a girlfriend and confidante and not as a masculine lover any more.

Your relationship with your husband is very similar to ours.
 
It must be hard to balance a vanilla marriage to friends, family, and the rest of the world, once black men start entering and taking over the bedroom and your white marriage. I am sure most white wives must lose alot of, if not all respect for their husbands both sexually and otherwise ..

I am very interested to hear about your detailed expressive thoughts on this along with are the husbands also cut off sexually as time goes on with Black men....
my ex and i were not married once those black men entered she lose interest me penetrating her, foreplay kissing passionately and eating her was the only sex i was allowed and sometimes when i felt so horny she gave me handjobs till the day she make it clear that i'm not allowed to have sex with her anymore. but other than sex she enjoyed my company and we were like normal couple.
 
FROM CHRISTINE-
First let me say that we are not complaining. Ray and I are a team.
We try our best to accompany the bull. Even when they're rude and shows up without
calling. Mornings are tough on their own, but young guys need to have their "mornin' wood"
taken care of.

Ray would take care of the children (cartoons usually, volume up) while "mom" deals with
"her black friend". Quick head, a little rimming, then face down, butt up. They usually,
don't take too long. Mouthwash, panty-liner... I'm good to go!

As for the respect thing... after using the dildo on him and then seeing him cum
while he was getting fucked, yeah it was hard having respect for him, sexually anyway.
I don't see him like my lover anymore but rather like one of my best girlfriends that
I share everything with.
Does that make sense?
Oh I think the same I have very little respect for my husband anymore so
 
Would that include financial support as well? Lets be real and not confuse sex with life in general. I share my wife and she has an loyalty to me as I do with her, but if she ever decides to do what you suggest above I can assure you, someone else needs to foot the bill. I do not mean to sound arrogant, insecure or whatever else negative characterization you want to come up with but it is clear in our marriage that her being shared with other men it is just an additive to our relationship and not a replacement of the relationship. Merely expressing an opinion here. And trust me finances are a key motivator for many things in life.
I'm waiting.
 
It's true, money is a great motivator in life. But so is guilt.
Is a well-to-do, older white married couple supposed to ask
a judge to garner the wages of a black teen lifeguard working
at the park district pool?

It is a small price to pay for the pleasure they provide, as well as
helping to keep you marriage together.
 
Truthfully it’s not. Nor is a lack of respect necessary no matter what type of a cuck you are. Sex, no matter how vital it is to you, your spouse, or to relationships in general, is just a portion of a union.

We’re business partners with three other couples we share the lifestyle with. Truth is 95% of our daily lives surround family, business, and sharing common interests outside of our sex life. 5% of life, and I’ll say I have no shame, is watching black men take over my bedroom, satisfy my, and let her fill her sexual needs with what she wants.
Totally agree Billymac, Im happy with a strong black man fucking my wife because it makes her happy. I am considered a strong white man but my wife says that giving herself to a black man and satisfying his sexual needs/ desires is the ultimate in sexual stimuli for her. She always feels that having a white man is second best.
 
Totally agree Billymac, Im happy with a strong black man fucking my wife because it makes her happy. I am considered a strong white man but my wife says that giving herself to a black man and satisfying his sexual needs/ desires is the ultimate in sexual stimuli for her. She always feels that having a white man is second best.
More power to you and yours. My wife and I have talked a lot about the fact that if it wasn’t this particular kink it would be something else.

The original poster of this thread went well beyond what we consider ok in our relationship and from you’ve said yours as well. If anyone has battled with a loss of respect it’s been my wife’s internal struggles with not conforming to a traditional role of a woman in a marriage. To say it’s been a struggle for her is an understatement.

I don’t choose to question why my wife is the way she is or why I’m where I’m at in life myself. I know I watched my wife have sex with a guy four times this weekend with three of those times coming in one day. She gets off to watching me play with myself as I watch her almost as much as she does from what the guy or guys are physically giving to her. If anything we’re much more affectionate and happier than we were before this.
 
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