I met a really cute black college guy at the supermarket. He was about 23 or so, but I don't know his exact age. He hit me up and I thought he was cute enough. I told him about my husbands and I lifestyle, he gave me his number and I told him I'd have my husband contact him. My husband texted him and pretty much told him it was cool to contact me and gave him my number.
He called and we talked, we got along well and he said he was only in town for the night, that we would meet up after he got off of work. Well 9pm came around and nothing. About 930pm I called him and it went straight to voicemail. I figured maybe his phone died and he needed to charge it. About 10pm the husband texts him to ask if we are still on for the night. We hear nothing back and the next day my husband received a notice that the message was undelivered, like his phone was off the whole time.
No message the next day telling us that his phone died, or any excuse. Nothing. At least for us, he ruined his reputation and we will never look to him to play again, even though he invited me to contact him when we were in his area when we talked on the phone.
Everyone, if you can't make it, just say so. Please don't be a flake that ruins your reputation, people talk and people will remember you.
He called and we talked, we got along well and he said he was only in town for the night, that we would meet up after he got off of work. Well 9pm came around and nothing. About 930pm I called him and it went straight to voicemail. I figured maybe his phone died and he needed to charge it. About 10pm the husband texts him to ask if we are still on for the night. We hear nothing back and the next day my husband received a notice that the message was undelivered, like his phone was off the whole time.
No message the next day telling us that his phone died, or any excuse. Nothing. At least for us, he ruined his reputation and we will never look to him to play again, even though he invited me to contact him when we were in his area when we talked on the phone.
Everyone, if you can't make it, just say so. Please don't be a flake that ruins your reputation, people talk and people will remember you.