You know, for those of you just getting into this lifestyle, can i please point something out. Look at he picture in the lower right hand corner. Look at the expression on the female's face. Look at her enjoying the sex, the pure sex, the pounding you cannot and failed to give her. That is the reward she is getting. If you see that, cherish it, worship and idolize your female and you will be brought into new heights and avenues with this whole lifestyle, if that is what you are after. Give her complete and free sexual bliss, value her, worship her by proving to her your love, your love for black men, your love of the situation and she will desire repeat that over and over again. But IMO the trick is finding and getting those quality black males that will outright pound her and bring her to that point. There needs to be some clear and concise communication. When my wife is pounded the same as that, in a clear way, clean way, direct way, all the drama and brew-haha left out---things go down a road I would never desire ended that night.