WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG HERE WITH THIS SITE?

SAMR

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We were happy to find a site that provides an education into the world of black and white for the purpose of adult fun and sex. As a white married couple in our 50's, we discussed the prospects of venturing into other avenues to enhance our sex life. We have never done this before although it has been a fantasy and we play with black dildo's exclusively. Both of us have friends that are black and we didn't grow up thinking adversely about African American people. We are all God's creation and equals.

There are good and bad in all races and we make our decisions on whom we call friends. Neither one of us had dated an African American and we now find it appealing and intriguing from the many things we have heard. We discussed the color contrast, the stamina, the aggressiveness and the size of the African American male. Quite frankly, it makes us pretty horny and wanting to find out more.

With that said, we have read a lot of the posts on here and we are increasingly getting turned off. This site appears to be a forum for people to use for their own negative and combative purposes other than the intended reason of bringing black and white together for mutual enjoyment. It is very sad. All of the racist comments, the push to change the demographics of the world for superiority, the put down of the white male, which are often called "boi", the embarrassment and the humiliation of the husband and the white woman becoming owned or a slave. Have we gone backwards to the caveman era?

This is why we can't move forward. It is also disturbing that people are bringing their political views on here. Why? This is a meet and greet sex site. We don't care about your political views. If this is what this site is going to be used for then we have had enough. We thought it would be a great place to learn about the lifestyle and perhaps find that big black cock that would make our first experience a great introduction into the lifestyle and have many more years of enjoyment. At this rate, we would rather spend our time doing other things.

Sorry but that is how we feel. Sad but true. People need to move forward and stop reliving the past. We are all equals and the world could be such a better place!
 
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We were happy to find a site that provides an education into the world of black and white for the purpose of adult fun and sex. As a white married couple in our 50's, we discussed the prospects of venturing into other avenues to enhance our sex life. We have never done this before although it has been a fantasy and we play with black dildo's exclusively. Both of us have friends that are black and we didn't grow up thinking adversely about African American people. We are all God's creation and equals. There are good and bad in all races and we make our decisions on whom we call friends. Neither one of us had dated an African American and we now find it appealing and intriguing from the many things we have heard. We discussed the color contrast, the stamina, the aggressiveness and the size of the African American male. Quite frankly, it makes us pretty horny and wanting to find out more.
With that said, we have read a lot of the posts on here and we are increasingly getting turned off. This site appears to be a forum for people to use for their own negative and combative purposes other than the intended reason of bringing black and white together for mutual enjoyment. It is very sad. All of the racist comments, the push to change the demographics of the world for superiority, the put down of the white male, which are often called "boi", the embarrassment and the humiliation of the husband and the white woman becoming owned or a slave. Have we gone backwards to the caveman era? This is why we can't move forward. It is also disturbing that people are bringing their political views on here. Why? This is a meet and greet sex site. We don't care about your political views.
If this is what this site is going to be used for then we have had enough. We thought it would be a great place to learn about the lifestyle and perhaps find that big black cock that would make our first experience a great introduction into the lifestyle and have many more years of enjoyment. At this rate, we would rather spend our time doing other things.
Sorry but that is how we feel. Sad but true. People need to move forward and stop reliving the past. We are all equals and the world could be such a better place!
I understand your point. Besides the extra bs I've met a couple of gentlemen here. They are not all this way. This is a forum and unfortunately you'll have those that talk to much. You just have to find the right man. To each his own even if it's unbelievable.
 
Thank you for the responses so far. We absolutely agree that it is not everyone and we wrote as a generalization. Just gets over bearing and unnecessary.
We are certain there are a lot of great black men that are honest, trustworthy and real. Like us, we are sure there are those that are not prejudice and looking for a great time.
Time will tell.
 
My pennies worth..

BlacktoWhite is indeed a general meeting place for like minded people. That said. It has slowly become a fantasy playground for a certain section of its members. Everyone has to find their place within the site.

It can be fun, It can be a place of some serious discussions without the vitrol that can be found on many a political forum. You just have to choose what you are here for.

Don't like the political side of the forums. Don't go there. The Cuckold section. Again, don't go there. There are some who enjoy the sparring of it. Its all down to what rocks your boat really.

You will find that there are some great members on here. Yes, they are between the cucks who think the sun shines out of a BBC. ( that trick I would pay money to see :confused: ), the' We are white and we want to surrender crowd'. And the yippeeee free tits members :D. Its what you want to take from here that's important. Nothting else really matters.

Some people like the extreme relationships that can be formed in any side of society. But. If you would rather go at a slow pace to start being more involved in the interracial sex scene, then look around. There are memebrs who will be only to happy to discuss the ins and outs of their particular experience. And offer sound advice. Its not all bad, Its not all good. But is a reflection of a large part of the interracial community.

Sometimes here is like walking through a minefield. But with the right help and advice it can also be a fun place.

Don't give up. Don't be put off. You can make this what ever you want. Try not to let it make the wrong picture about everyone on a few postings or comments that have soured your opinion or idea of how things should be.:rolleyes:

Well my pennies worth... Hope it made sense.:lips:
 
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I suggest that you verify yourselves and that way you have the https://www.blacktowhite.net/forums/real-interracial-porn-lovers/ that is only real persons forum that is open to only verified people.


And even that gives no guarantee.. I know . Having more than a few 'verified members chat and arrange things...Only for them to be fake and having to be blocked from this site.

1. If they sound or seem to good to be true...They generaly are.

2. Take things slow and use your brains.

3. Skype and such like can be used to verify they are who they are...ONCE you're satified they are what you seek.

4. If at any time you don't feel comfortable with someone then stop. It will only get worse.

5. Never give out numbers or pictures unless you are sure you want them sent...They cannot be taken back once you have sent them to someone.

6. See 2 and don't think with your genitals. It generally ends up messy.

7. Lastly have a set of rules or protocols to go through. I use the following

1. Chat on B2W till satified I like, and get on with who I am chatting too.

2. Exchange a few NON facial, Non recognisable pictures or photographs.

3. Once happy then go to whats or kik or the like and arrange a chat WITH ALL PARTIES INVOLVED..ie Partner.

4. Then exchange pictures that are more revealing once comfortable with things

5. Arrange a skype ( or the like) video chat).

6. Once everyone is happy then meet or arrange to meet.

While these have helped in the past. Like everything its a help as NOTHING is 100% fool proof.
 
We were happy to find a site that provides an education into the world of black and white for the purpose of adult fun and sex. As a white married couple in our 50's, we discussed the prospects of venturing into other avenues to enhance our sex life. We have never done this before although it has been a fantasy and we play with black dildo's exclusively. Both of us have friends that are black and we didn't grow up thinking adversely about African American people. We are all God's creation and equals. There are good and bad in all races and we make our decisions on whom we call friends. Neither one of us had dated an African American and we now find it appealing and intriguing from the many things we have heard. We discussed the color contrast, the stamina, the aggressiveness and the size of the African American male. Quite frankly, it makes us pretty horny and wanting to find out more.
With that said, we have read a lot of the posts on here and we are increasingly getting turned off. This site appears to be a forum for people to use for their own negative and combative purposes other than the intended reason of bringing black and white together for mutual enjoyment. It is very sad. All of the racist comments, the push to change the demographics of the world for superiority, the put down of the white male, which are often called "boi", the embarrassment and the humiliation of the husband and the white woman becoming owned or a slave. Have we gone backwards to the caveman era? This is why we can't move forward. It is also disturbing that people are bringing their political views on here. Why? This is a meet and greet sex site. We don't care about your political views.
If this is what this site is going to be used for then we have had enough. We thought it would be a great place to learn about the lifestyle and perhaps find that big black cock that would make our first experience a great introduction into the lifestyle and have many more years of enjoyment. At this rate, we would rather spend our time doing other things.
Sorry but that is how we feel. Sad but true. People need to move forward and stop reliving the past. We are all equals and the world could be such a better place!
So i was at the mall one day and there was a stall set up with a sign saying " free chocolates - take if you want".
I took a box and opened it and ate some chocolates but then i noticed that included in the box were a lot that i didn't like. So, of course, i went back to the stall and complained. I told them that i didnt like some of their chocolates and that they should not have put those in the box and they should clean out all their boxes to ensure that only chocolates that i like are included.
The lady at the stall said to me that many people like the ones that i rejected so it would be unfair to discriminate against those people. Well! Did i give it to her!@##÷@!
I told her in no uncertain terms that i didnt care what other people wanted. The only thing that matters is what i want and if you dont change things to my liking i demand my money back.
"But" she said ... "the chocolates are free. You paid nothing for them."
"What the hell is wrong here?" I said.
 
We were happy to find a site that provides an education into the world of black and white for the purpose of adult fun and sex. As a white married couple in our 50's, we discussed the prospects of venturing into other avenues to enhance our sex life. We have never done this before although it has been a fantasy and we play with black dildo's exclusively. Both of us have friends that are black and we didn't grow up thinking adversely about African American people. We are all God's creation and equals. There are good and bad in all races and we make our decisions on whom we call friends. Neither one of us had dated an African American and we now find it appealing and intriguing from the many things we have heard. We discussed the color contrast, the stamina, the aggressiveness and the size of the African American male. Quite frankly, it makes us pretty horny and wanting to find out more.
With that said, we have read a lot of the posts on here and we are increasingly getting turned off. This site appears to be a forum for people to use for their own negative and combative purposes other than the intended reason of bringing black and white together for mutual enjoyment. It is very sad. All of the racist comments, the push to change the demographics of the world for superiority, the put down of the white male, which are often called "boi", the embarrassment and the humiliation of the husband and the white woman becoming owned or a slave. Have we gone backwards to the caveman era? This is why we can't move forward. It is also disturbing that people are bringing their political views on here. Why? This is a meet and greet sex site. We don't care about your political views.
If this is what this site is going to be used for then we have had enough. We thought it would be a great place to learn about the lifestyle and perhaps find that big black cock that would make our first experience a great introduction into the lifestyle and have many more years of enjoyment. At this rate, we would rather spend our time doing other things.
Sorry but that is how we feel. Sad but true. People need to move forward and stop reliving the past. We are all equals and the world could be such a better place!
Well said....we agree.
 
And even that gives no guarantee.. I know . Having more than a few 'verified members chat and arrange things...Only for them to be fake and having to be blocked from this site.

1. If they sound or seem to good to be true...They generaly are.

2. Take things slow and use your brains.

3. Skype and such like can be used to verify they are who they are...ONCE you're satified they are what you seek.

4. If at any time you don't feel comfortable with someone then stop. It will only get worse.

5. Never give out numbers or pictures unless you are sure you want them sent...They cannot be taken back once you have sent them to someone.

6. See 2 and don't think with your genitals. It generally ends up messy.

7. Lastly have a set of rules or protocols to go through. I use the following

1. Chat on B2W till satified I like, and get on with who I am chatting too.

2. Exchange a few NON facial, Non recognisable pictures or photographs.

3. Once happy then go to whats or kik or the like and arrange a chat WITH ALL PARTIES INVOLVED..ie Partner.

4. Then exchange pictures that are more revealing once comfortable with things

5. Arrange a skype ( or the like) video chat).

6. Once everyone is happy then meet or arrange to meet.

While these have helped in the past. Like everything its a help as NOTHING is 100% fool proof.
Thank you
 
My pennies worth..

BlacktoWhite is indeed a general meeting place for like minded people. That said. It has slowly become a fantasy playground for a certain section of its members. Everyone has to find their place within the site.

It can be fun, It can be a place of some serious discussions without the vitrol that can be found on many a political forum. You just have to choose what you are here for.

Don't like the political side of the forums. Don't go there. The Cuckold section. Again, don't go there. There are some who enjoy the sparring of it. Its all down to what rocks your boat really.

You will find that there are some great members on here. Yes, they are between the cucks who think the sun shines out of a BBC. ( that trick I would pay money to see :confused: ), the' We are white and we want to surrender crowd'. And the yippeeee free tits members :D. Its what you want to take from here that's important. Nothting else really matters.

Some people like the extreme relationships that can be formed in any side of society. But. If you would rather go at a slow pace to start being more involved in the interracial sex scene, then look around. There are memebrs who will be only to happy to discuss the ins and outs of their particular experiance. And offer sound advice. Its not all bad, Its not all good. But is a reflection of a large part of the interracial community.

Sometimes here is like walking through a minefield. But with the right help and advice it can also be a fun place.

Don't give up. Don't be put off. You can make this what ever you want. Try not to let it make the wrong picture about everyone on a few postings or comments that have soured your opinion or idea of how things should be.:rolleyes:

Well my pennies worth... Hope it made sense.:lips:
Thank you so very much
 
My pennies worth..

BlacktoWhite is indeed a general meeting place for like minded people. That said. It has slowly become a fantasy playground for a certain section of its members. Everyone has to find their place within the site.

It can be fun, It can be a place of some serious discussions without the vitrol that can be found on many a political forum. You just have to choose what you are here for.

Don't like the political side of the forums. Don't go there. The Cuckold section. Again, don't go there. There are some who enjoy the sparring of it. Its all down to what rocks your boat really.

You will find that there are some great members on here. Yes, they are between the cucks who think the sun shines out of a BBC. ( that trick I would pay money to see :confused: ), the' We are white and we want to surrender crowd'. And the yippeeee free tits members :D. Its what you want to take from here that's important. Nothting else really matters.

Some people like the extreme relationships that can be formed in any side of society. But. If you would rather go at a slow pace to start being more involved in the interracial sex scene, then look around. There are memebrs who will be only to happy to discuss the ins and outs of their particular experiance. And offer sound advice. Its not all bad, Its not all good. But is a reflection of a large part of the interracial community.

Sometimes here is like walking through a minefield. But with the right help and advice it can also be a fun place.

Don't give up. Don't be put off. You can make this what ever you want. Try not to let it make the wrong picture about everyone on a few postings or comments that have soured your opinion or idea of how things should be.:rolleyes:

Well my pennies worth... Hope it made sense.:lips:
The thing is tho, in the general forums that certain section of people always find a way to hint at their pet peeves like 'breeding', white genocide and all the other cultural masochisms.

This point has been raised so many times. But there is no social control to prevent these confrontations as the extreme side of things permeates everything on here. It's just really off putting.
 
So i was at the mall one day and there was a stall set up with a sign saying " free chocolates - take if you want".
I took a box and opened it and ate some chocolates but then i noticed that included in the box were a lot that i didn't like. So, of course, i went back to the stall and complained. I told them that i didnt like some of their chocolates and that they should not have put those in the box and they should clean out all their boxes to ensure that only chocolates that i like are included.
The lady at the stall said to me that many people like the ones that i rejected so it would be unfair to discriminate against those people. Well! Did i give it to her!@##÷@!
I told her in no uncertain terms that i didnt care what other people wanted. The only thing that matters is what i want and if you dont change things to my liking i demand my money back.
"But" she said ... "the chocolates are free. You paid nothing for them."
"What the hell is wrong here?" I said.
So I was on the internet the other day. And lo and behold. Someone spoke their mind about something. Of course that quickly resulted in others misconstruing the actual point made in some badly written analogy.
 
And even that gives no guarantee.. I know . Having more than a few 'verified members chat and arrange things...Only for them to be fake and having to be blocked from this site.

1. If they sound or seem to good to be true...They generaly are.

2. Take things slow and use your brains.

3. Skype and such like can be used to verify they are who they are...ONCE you're satified they are what you seek.

4. If at any time you don't feel comfortable with someone then stop. It will only get worse.

5. Never give out numbers or pictures unless you are sure you want them sent...They cannot be taken back once you have sent them to someone.

6. See 2 and don't think with your genitals. It generally ends up messy.

7. Lastly have a set of rules or protocols to go through. I use the following

1. Chat on B2W till satified I like, and get on with who I am chatting too.

2. Exchange a few NON facial, Non recognisable pictures or photographs.

3. Once happy then go to whats or kik or the like and arrange a chat WITH ALL PARTIES INVOLVED..ie Partner.

4. Then exchange pictures that are more revealing once comfortable with things

5. Arrange a skype ( or the like) video chat).

6. Once everyone is happy then meet or arrange to meet.

While these have helped in the past. Like everything its a help as NOTHING is 100% fool proof.
True that
 
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