What the changing times mean for this lifestyle

Do you ever have concerns for youur physical safety while engaging this lifestyle? And I'm not talking about being fucked so hard it causes some bruising or pain. I'm talking about potential for an incident along the fault lines os society. Just the other day I was reading a comment from a social commentator that America has never been this divided since the civil _war and that it's only going to get worse. If there were to be an incident in a hotel between a rogue bull 'on a cause' and a couple, it will gain widespread coverage and the shame and embarassment for the family/families concerned be very acute. How is the potential for something like this taking place affecting how you participate in these types of acctivities?
 
Do you ever have concerns for youur physical safety while engaging this lifestyle? And I'm not talking about being fucked so hard it causes some bruising or pain. I'm talking about potential for an incident along the fault lines os society. Just the other day I was reading a comment from a social commentator that America has never been this divided since the civil _war and that it's only going to get worse. If there were to be an incident in a hotel between a rogue bull 'on a cause' and a couple, it will gain widespread coverage and the shame and embarassment for the family/families concerned be very acute. How is the potential for something like this taking place affecting how you participate in these types of acctivities?
The potential for an incident always exists but, great communication is the essence of success in the lifestyle for all participants. Many Bulls gain access by referrals from other couples who they have played with for long periods of time.; hence, developing a relationship with them and having a sense of their personal disposition.
 
I was at party when a fight did start up I was so scared one of the guys fell on me and broke my arm I had to call my husband to take me to hospital
Sorry to hear about that incident.....other men at your party should've stepped in before any raised voices or blows thrown at each other. I personally always step in to act as a "cooler" to de-escalate a situation because swinger events at times a re like a bar where alcohol and women can escalate a situation.
 
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Oh it wasn't swinger party I was the only woman there it was kinda my fault I was teasing so much that night
Keep on teasing but, be careful. in the future. Hope the host for any event will take more proactive steps to prevent any incident. What steps do you take now and hubby's position regarding activities you attend where he's absent?
 
Do you ever have concerns for youur physical safety while engaging this lifestyle? And I'm not talking about being fucked so hard it causes some bruising or pain. I'm talking about potential for an incident along the fault lines os society. Just the other day I was reading a comment from a social commentator that America has never been this divided since the civil _war and that it's only going to get worse. If there were to be an incident in a hotel between a rogue bull 'on a cause' and a couple, it will gain widespread coverage and the shame and embarassment for the family/families concerned be very acute. How is the potential for something like this taking place affecting how you participate in these types of acctivities?
What do you consider a 'bull on a cause'?
 
Do you ever have concerns for youur physical safety while engaging this lifestyle? And I'm not talking about being fucked so hard it causes some bruising or pain. I'm talking about potential for an incident along the fault lines os society. Just the other day I was reading a comment from a social commentator that America has never been this divided since the civil _war and that it's only going to get worse. If there were to be an incident in a hotel between a rogue bull 'on a cause' and a couple, it will gain widespread coverage and the shame and embarassment for the family/families concerned be very acute. How is the potential for something like this taking place affecting how you participate in these types of acctivities?
It is scary but it's time that had to happen and become the norm
 
I'm stay at home mo mmy now I dont get to play much anymore my husband is being such butt about it all so
Sounds like he was a OK to play but not if you get hurt. You might want to rethink the butt comment. Speak to him about going along to prevent another broken arm.
 
I think the degree of division is overhyped by the media. Ive been doing this a long time and amazed at how folks from many different walks of life come together with a common cause. Ive never seen or heard of any physically harmful incident short of one. In that case it was a swingers club in San Fran where couples were swapping. One husband was a cop (white), had a gun in his car, got jealous and came back and shot a dude (also white). But that was one in over ten year's worth of events.

Ive never even heard of anything getting stolen and there's ample opportunity for that.

I wouldnt give this topic any more energy.
 
I think the degree of division is overhyped by the media. Ive been doing this a long time and amazed at how folks from many different walks of life come together with a common cause. Ive never seen or heard of any physically harmful incident short of one. In that case it was a swingers club in San Fran where couples were swapping. One husband was a cop (white), had a gun in his car, got jealous and came back and shot a dude (also white). But that was one in over ten year's worth of events.

Ive never even heard of anything getting stolen and there's ample opportunity for that.

I wouldnt give this topic any more energy.
The topic is good as a reminder for us gentlemen of colour but, more about how others perceive or possibly perceive us...
 
Do you ever have concerns for youur physical safety while engaging this lifestyle? And I'm not talking about being fucked so hard it causes some bruising or pain. I'm talking about potential for an incident along the fault lines os society. Just the other day I was reading a comment from a social commentator that America has never been this divided since the civil _war and that it's only going to get worse. If there were to be an incident in a hotel between a rogue bull 'on a cause' and a couple, it will gain widespread coverage and the shame and embarassment for the family/families concerned be very acute. How is the potential for something like this taking place affecting how you participate in these types of acctivities?
I have never really felt concerned for my physical safety no. When it comes to the men I date we usually are on pretty good terms and know each other fairly well. I mean there is the chance for disagreements when it comes to politics and beliefs but I would hope none of those would go beyond being a subject we do not discuss or at worst something that causes us to go our separate ways. I know things are divided and people coming from different parts of the world can be pretty ignorant to the issues of the other and hopefully those can be looked at through conversation and spending time together. I hope things get better in the future but yes it does not look well with the corupt politcical system and so many other imperfections in our society.
 
I'm stay at home mo mmy now I dont get to play much anymore my husband is being such butt about it all so
Family is priority; however, ocassionally kiddies off to Grandma House they go then, mummy and hubby go to their adult playhouse with other playmates...
 
Family is priority; however, ocassionally kiddies off to Grandma House they go then, mummy and hubby go to their adult playhouse with other playmates...
My parents don't want anything to do with most of our family and friends have disowned us after they found out so I've had to
 
My parents don't want anything to do with most of our family and friends have disowned us after they found out so I've had to
Your parents sound a lot like mine Christy. Ever since I divorced my cheating husband and they found out I found a black boyfriend, they’ve disowned me also. In fact, other than one uncle, my entire family and all of their friends have disowned me also. My uncle, who discretely calls me ever so often, says that when they have a family gathering, it’s totally forbidden to even mention my name. It’s like I was never born to them, even though I was their only baby.. Its really a shame that racism can go so deeply into anyones minds.. especially when it comes from your own family and friends..
 
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