Has anyone's husband had any traumatic events or other experiences that you think might have contributed to his cuckoldry? Does the wife think so, the husband or both? Please elaborate.
Traumatic Events or Other Experiences that Might have contributed to Cuckoldry?
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I wouldnt call it traumatic, but as near as I figure it was the scene in TRAFFIC where Jula Stiles woke up to the black ******* dealer fucking her. I never thought about black men fucking white woman before that. I recall getting turned on in the theater. I began fantasizing about it, then fantasizing about my wife and black men. It took years to work up the nerve to share my fantasy with my wife. Years after that conversation its just about the only fantasy that gets us both off.
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Mine, was finding a journal that my not so innocent wife kept while we were dating. In it she documented a couple of years of her life while we were dating in college. Mostly uneventful until it was about her hooking up with a lab partner I always suspected her hooking up with. A few times he would fuck her less than an hour before I would show up to her apartment. I remember once fucking her standing up in front of her apartment window and telling her “damn babe you are so fucking wet”. I was young and naive. Llittle did I know she was fucking this guy raw and he was filling her up right before I got there.
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But, you had met him? You knew he was a better man than you were/are? Men can size each other up pretty quickly.
An ex of mine cheated on me -- I found a short video clip of her sucking on BBC and it changed me significantly.
Initial reaction: Anger, hurt pride etc.
Second reaction: "I'm just going to watch that clip again...."
Initial reaction: Anger, hurt pride etc.
Second reaction: "I'm just going to watch that clip again...."
I had met him. Actually had partied with him and some other friends of hers. I just had a gut feeling but never knew for sure.
LakeTahoeCuck
Couple
Our journey into this fetish absolutely started from a traumatic series of events that happened to my wife in college.
she got deeply into using coke and her friend took control of her that ultimately led to her being owned by her first black guy that was her friend’s and through her my wife’s dealer.
he turned her out and degraded her so completely she has been black owned ever since.
I’ve watched her trying to get back to how he made her feel with all of her bulls.
no question in my mind that what drives her comes from that first black guy that made her feel like his property. That’s very real and powerful.
that’s what made her like she is.
she got deeply into using coke and her friend took control of her that ultimately led to her being owned by her first black guy that was her friend’s and through her my wife’s dealer.
he turned her out and degraded her so completely she has been black owned ever since.
I’ve watched her trying to get back to how he made her feel with all of her bulls.
no question in my mind that what drives her comes from that first black guy that made her feel like his property. That’s very real and powerful.
that’s what made her like she is.
And how is she as a person?? How long have you been tigether? And has the relationship been a rocky road? Were you a cuckold right from the outset????
LakeTahoeCuck
Couple
She’s amazing as a person. You would never guess tha she’s like that. She looks totally sweet and innocent.
we’ve been together over 20 years and it has been rocky at times as we’ve been exploring our kinks of being owned and degraded. It’s been very challenging at times for sure.
I didn’t really know what I was getting into the first time. But looking back I was both a cuck and a bitch from the start.
her history made it more challenging because she was so much more experienced than I was or realized.
we’ve been together over 20 years and it has been rocky at times as we’ve been exploring our kinks of being owned and degraded. It’s been very challenging at times for sure.
I didn’t really know what I was getting into the first time. But looking back I was both a cuck and a bitch from the start.
her history made it more challenging because she was so much more experienced than I was or realized.
Sounds amazing. Congratulations to you both. For finding eachother, and enjoying the whole journey.
LakeTahoeCuck
Couple
Thanks. It’s been a crazy journey for most of it but we’ve grown closer and deeper in love.
it was the most addicting rush I’ve ever felt.
My ex-girlfriend (that I loved more the anything else) cheated on me and that made me go through an emotional and psycholigcal hell for almost 2 years of stress, depression and angst. First I was angry, jealous but loved her so much that was ok to accept that she was having a lover as long I was not loosing her. I gradually adapted to the idea of being a cuckold and learning to accept the situation to avoid going through that emotional and psychological hell. The rest is history....
You haven't adapted, that's called maladaption. Notice how your personality has changed, you're less assertive, more timid and your facial expressions show it. Notice how she talks to you, looks at you. You know what those looks mean.
You're slowly dying on the inside. Help yourself by first standing your ground and then leave. Just because you got into it doesn't mean you cant get out and change.
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