Ok this is the white husband posting this. Just to be clear, I do like seeing my wife with other men (especially black men). I brought this kink to her. She dated many black men before me, yet she chose me. Imagine that? We are into just enjoying sex as a couple with a partner. I am not a cuck more stag( play a little here and there) type guy.
What I am trying to say is have confidence in yourself. I am so sick of the white guys shaming and putting themselves down. Have confidence in yourselves. Look, I am an alpha in 95% of the rooms I am in. I’ve taken many women from black dudes and have had women taken from me by white, black and Latino men. All of you think it’s about the size of the dick and yes, that helps but it’s more about confidence and energy.
I honestly feel sad for some of you and wish you would gain the confidence in yourselves that we have. The bulls know exactly what I mean. We can sense a beta, as well as a more alpha as soon as we are around them. I don’t understand what it is but it’s some sort of energy you put off. That is why my wife and I have a hard time finding guys to play with. I try not to give that energy but it comes out.
I just want you guys to stop falling into the racial BS trap and start having that positive energy. You can still enjoy the lifestyle but build your own confidence and do your thing as well. I know it’s hard when you see that dude that has a bigger dick or the contrast , but I promise that you will make a way better lover. Be strong and enjoy whatever routes you take.
What I am trying to say is have confidence in yourself. I am so sick of the white guys shaming and putting themselves down. Have confidence in yourselves. Look, I am an alpha in 95% of the rooms I am in. I’ve taken many women from black dudes and have had women taken from me by white, black and Latino men. All of you think it’s about the size of the dick and yes, that helps but it’s more about confidence and energy.
I honestly feel sad for some of you and wish you would gain the confidence in yourselves that we have. The bulls know exactly what I mean. We can sense a beta, as well as a more alpha as soon as we are around them. I don’t understand what it is but it’s some sort of energy you put off. That is why my wife and I have a hard time finding guys to play with. I try not to give that energy but it comes out.
I just want you guys to stop falling into the racial BS trap and start having that positive energy. You can still enjoy the lifestyle but build your own confidence and do your thing as well. I know it’s hard when you see that dude that has a bigger dick or the contrast , but I promise that you will make a way better lover. Be strong and enjoy whatever routes you take.
Last edited: