At a certain stage in life, swinging or cuckolding is very healthy for relationship. Well, you are both middle-aged, your children left, you are empty-nesters with more time on your hands than you need. You love each other, you are comfortable together and are used to each others company, but there is little sexual drive left. Here comes lifestyle. Suddenly there is intrigue, sexual desire, adventure, seach for pleasure. At least this is how it is for us. We both started regularly attending gyms to keep fit: you cannot afford to be in poor physical shape if you plan to undress in front of other people. We are more open with each other, sexual life is more intense. Lifestyle for us is a welcome continuation of youth and activity.
Amen!! It is a boost to our life. My wife never imagined herself being with a black man and finds it exhilarating.