Thinking about setting up my white wife to be approached.
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Tried porn really not her interest its just me pushing becomes one sided
So you rather deceive her then be honest?
Agreed...
Doesn’t sound like it’s gonna work then.
Why not take her to a club where Black guys may hang out and dance. Sit back and see if she gets hit on.
Smart move......
Really welcome to hear mych more about your situation, ideas, anything that can help
This is very dependent on how open your wife may be to meeting and getting to know others. Some women are much more welcoming of male attention than others.
My wife was/is very conservative. Strong religious background. It took years of patience before she agreed and decided to try it. I had tge fantasy of seeing her with other men for close to 12 years, never really pushed it. About 4 year ago though she opened the door and I just laid it all out. Wecwere just chatting about different stuff and she asked me what would I do if some guy just came up and started hitting on her. I decided why not and just laid it all out tgere expecting her to go ballistic and be like oh hell no, your crazy and no way I would ever do that. Instead she looked at me for a second, was like "your serious aren't you" she was quiet for a few more minutes then all she said calmly is that she didn't think she could do that, BUT she did not say NO!
She started reading about hotwife lifestyle, researching it. Even started looking up scripture to see what the Bible said. In the meantime we kept talking about it. She let me make a couole of profiles on some swinger and hookup sites. She even, fir the first time in our marriage let me share pics of her in her lingerie. About a month later we were talking andcshe said if I do this it will take baby steps. About 2 weeks later she agreed to meet a gentleman we had been speaking with on one of the sites. He was from Engkand and visiting the states. Were were talking and he asked her if she had seen his pictures, sge said yea she had. He then asked if she thought she wanted to see more. She hesitated a couple seconds, looked at him and said yes she thinks she would. We left that meetup, talked about it a littke bit and finally she said, if I'm going to do this I just need to put on my big girl panties and do it. We called the guy back and 2 hours later he was in our bedroom and he gave her a great fucking. When they were done, she looked at me and said that was quite enjoyable and ibwiuld do it again. Here we are 4 years out and she is still enjoying it.
Sounds great - hope there would be such door-opening by my wife one day
The hardest part is ALWAYS THE FIRST TIME. Once she has enjoyed another man, assuming all goes well, it will become her initiative to continue to do so. At that point you will realize that you are no longer in control.
We are still hotwife and voyeur husband. Still seeing other men, but just not as often as we were (work and life). Anita has found that she prefers meeting black guys over the white guys also. Shecsays that they just seem more respectful and perform better.
Hearing her say that is so erotic.
That is very true, the first experience is the most important and most difficult to happen.
A woman is more accepting of black men if they have female friends who have black boyfriends. She wants the black man because her friends have told her how good the sex is.
Agreed
