To answer your very good question, I think your answer can be divided into two categories, Stag/Vixen or Cuckold (Humiliated) relationships.
In the Stag/Vixen relationship, where the guy is as much a willing participant as the wife is, a compromise is in order. If the Bull lays down a requirement that the woman be shaved but the husband doesn’t want it, then it needs to be discussed, if necessary, between the three of them. In the end, it’s the wife/husband who has overarching authority. If the Bull insists it’s shaved or nothing, but the husband doesn’t want it to go down that road, well suffice to say that there are a lot of guys out there who don’t care, time to move on and find another Bull.
However, if the wife finds it exciting, then her and her husband need to talk and reach a compromise. If she shaves, he gets to watch. Or if she shaves, he gets something (sexual) he wants. Try and work out a balance. Of course, there is another option – ‘Let’s try it once and see how it goes…’. That’s a bit of a compromise too. In the end, communication is the key.
In a Cuckold (Humiliated) relationship, the husband has no say. The wife and her Bull is out to make him feel as emasculated as possible, and shaving (or something else) is just one personification of it. So if the Bull desires the wife to be shaved, it’s her decision, and I believe that in this sort of situation, she’d probably side with him over her husband’s wishes.
Finally, from a personal perspective, when my first long term Bull asked that I shave, I was the reluctant one. I had done bikini trims all along (hard to grow up on the beach in California without trimming) but never removing it all.
The request was made and I told him I’d think about it. Hubby and I discussed and he was the one who suggested that I give it a try, ‘Just the one time…’ using the rationale that one can’t make an honest evaluation until they’ve experienced it.
I took his suggestion and much to my surprise, we initially ‘liked it’ but when it was time to play with my Bull, I found I LOVED it – and so did hubby. Hence, it all worked out for the better. To this day, I’m totally shaved and have been this way for well over six years.
I don’t know if I adequately answered your question or not, but you have my opinion. As usual, feel free to ask questions (and I know you will!)
Donna
ever been 'held up'?
