We agree completely with this, as someone above said, I think that cuckold couples are actually a minority in this lifestyle, but they seem to dominate the online presence with their fantasies.
Stag Vixen (non-cuckold)
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Most refreshing post I've seen here in a longtime (i've posted here under different accounts for several years). I really like getting feedback from real Females in this lifestyle. Nice to see so many females chime in that they still deeply care and respect their husbands. This lifestyle is about living out real fantasies and adding sexual excitement to a relationship. Not into the blatant humiliation stuff at all.
I might add n think most Bulls in here are straight and they are not really in that clean her and be the sissy, but some are maybe fantasizing or wanting to experiment something.. which the bull would not mind if he cleans or not.. LOL .. Guess the whole idea is that we all have fun .. Stag / cuck / Sissy its all about how you wants it to be ...
It`s disillusioning how terms are being used, misused or reinvented. 
i`m already giving up on that one.
(referring to "hotwife", "cuckold", "bull", "queen of spades", ...)
i`m already giving up on that one.(referring to "hotwife", "cuckold", "bull", "queen of spades", ...)
This is turning out to be a great thread and very much needed. All this talk about humiliation and breeding of white women to end the white race is comical at times. To us, and I am the wife, it is about sex and my husband watching. That is what he likes and wants. He is a very strong and confident white man who I love to death. We know this is an open forum and some of the things on here are offensive but we have open minds and are not thin skinned. If we were, we would have left already.
Thank you for starting this thread.
Thank you for starting this thread.
From my experience the majority of couples I met were Stag/Vixen. Usually an Alpha/Alpha exhibitionist couple with a high sex drive.
Cuckolding is like you said, just subgenre within the Lifestyle. It takes on role playing aspects like Dom, Sub, Master, Slave. I've assumed that Dom role but its not a requirement for me to enjoy the experience.
I'm flexible either way
As for your last point... I've had a few otherwise Alpha guys clean their women after I creampied her. It might make THEM bisexual lol., but my straight guy essence is well intact.
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Wait... You can be a qos and have no cuck husband... The queen of spades refers to the lifestyle tath prefer bbc sex and that you its on a open marriage and available for black man other than your husband, I add another thing, if a husband goes down to lick, after having sex with a black man dosent mean he is a cuck or other bullshit, however, be submissive or suck bbc cock or lick during sex and this tipe of things yes, it's cuckold lifestyle
Sorry for my English :*
Sorry for my English :*
Your English is fine my gorgeous Italian princess! You brought up some good points. I've met plenty of single QoS's who swear total devotion to Black Men Only. Their pussy has never known white/pink penis lol! Also, the same is true for men cleaning up after. I've had plenty of Straight Men, Alpha guys not submissive who went down on their women AFTER I emptied my creamy load(s) inside her. I wouldn't call them bisexual.
Kinky? VERY.
I can see most of you ladies and gentlemen on this thread prefer the terms Stag and Vixen compared to a cuckold relationship. Nothing against the different ways people live and enjoy their sex lives. Many on this site and on the internet are practicing the Cuckold Fetish Lifestyle. The key word being Fetish because it is loaded with a ton of other fetishes over and above the traditional meaning of cuckolding. The Stag and Vixen lifestyle risen on here is still cuckolding, it is the most accurate form of the original definition with just one difference. A cuckold is a man whose wife is having affairs without the knowledge of her husband. A Wittol is a cuckold husband who knows and encourages his wife to have affairs. The Cuckold Fetish lifestyle includes any number of the forms of humiliation that can be practiced. Submission, Domination, cream pie eating, black owned, Bi-sexual sex between a cuckold and Bull, pimping out another mans wife, *******, cock cages, denial, capital punishment and pregnancy from a Bull all fall under the Fetish form of the lifestyle. A Stag is technically a cuckold to his Vixen or Hotwife for that matter. Take comfort in knowing that the latest titles of Stag and Vixen is the closest relationship in the cuckold lifestyle. Just my thoughts no offence to anyone.
Extremely well presented book explanation.
we are a stag vixen couple
@Hottobe cucked: Thanks for the very appreciated input.
My 2ct`s added...
i very much agree with what you say about cuckolding but not so much with the wittol though. The only use of that word i know is outside any adult lifestyle... a husband to a cheating wife who had gotten aware of her cheating but doesn`t do anything about it. That means he accepts it (with whatever feelings associated; mostly bad, i guess). But in no way it is supposed to mean he "encourages his wife to have affairs ".
Another thing is that, although widely (and wrongly!) used by the swinging community, a fetish is "originally" not supposed to mean a particular guise or "subculture". It is a psychology term referring to any "unusual" object or practice that becomes necessary for an individual`s sexual gratification - hence a fixation that can be described as both "abnormal" and obsessive.
Although it may be true for some lifestyle participants that cuckolding becomes a fetish for them, this is not generally the case. Most real-life lifestyle couples perceive it - pretty much like swinging - as some shared "recreational activity" - almost like going to a movie theatre or attending a concert - but in a sexual context. It is an addition (not an addiction ) to a couple`s otherwise "normal" sex life but not a necessity for being sexually aroused.
ImO the more appropriate term to describe a particular adult lifestyle would be a kink.
My 2ct`s added...
i very much agree with what you say about cuckolding but not so much with the wittol though. The only use of that word i know is outside any adult lifestyle... a husband to a cheating wife who had gotten aware of her cheating but doesn`t do anything about it. That means he accepts it (with whatever feelings associated; mostly bad, i guess). But in no way it is supposed to mean he "encourages his wife to have affairs ".
Another thing is that, although widely (and wrongly!) used by the swinging community, a fetish is "originally" not supposed to mean a particular guise or "subculture". It is a psychology term referring to any "unusual" object or practice that becomes necessary for an individual`s sexual gratification - hence a fixation that can be described as both "abnormal" and obsessive.
Although it may be true for some lifestyle participants that cuckolding becomes a fetish for them, this is not generally the case. Most real-life lifestyle couples perceive it - pretty much like swinging - as some shared "recreational activity" - almost like going to a movie theatre or attending a concert - but in a sexual context. It is an addition (not an addiction
) to a couple`s otherwise "normal" sex life but not a necessity for being sexually aroused.ImO the more appropriate term to describe a particular adult lifestyle would be a kink.
We're stag/vixen. I call what I do vixing instead of hotwifing, since my husband proudly shares me rather than my humiliating and denying him.
Agree 110%. I've been in lifestlye for 8 years and of all my encounters maybe only 2 or 3 were into cuckolding. (Unless others were afraid to bring it up)
Hey. i`m a big fan of yours.
From your contributions on B2w my idea of you would be Playwife and Wifesharer though. - No need for a label though as long as everyone involved is having a great time. GreetingsOh, BTW, was it you who wrote some nice definitions under the same name on Urban Dictionary?
am with you ...I agree
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Well don't be mad at us black men about the white husband being a punk ok and second of all i had plenty of white women b4 i ever knew about the life style so the comment about if it wasn't for the cuckold lifestyle we wouldn't be fucking you that's bullshit you want it because you really want it ok
Lmao. Calm down ******* bath. I think u may have taken her out of context.
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