Stag and not cuck

I think RangerCuck is simply pointing out the definition of the term rather than redefining so as to avoid ego bruising.
When my we were still swinging my husband never thought of himself as a cuckold, he behaved much like people identifying as stags. The reason we stopped was the last bull we met insisted he be caged at our next meeting.
 
I am new to this and I am still "learning". A couple of days ago I learned a new term. Stag. Which I think is more accurate to my preferences. I am mot interested in any submissive actions. Just want to watch my wifes pussy and ass being stretched to the limit by a dominant BBC for her pleasure. None of all this close ups, touching other mens gear or cleaning up. Just watch and enjoy my wife getting pounded and well handled. I am also not into swinging, which alot seems to be. Satisfied with my huge tit sex godess and can not see my self with any other.

I have not yet introduced my wife to this fantasy of mine, still have to wait at least a year before I reveal it. We are not in a position to have advanced XXX-adventures right now, but next year there will be more time for that. We are "joking" around at home about BBC and I think my wife as usual already has read my mind. I want to introduce her to this in a dirty fashion, tie her up, blindfold her and play with her and end up putting a huge black dildo in her tight pussy when she is close to cum. So I hope she has not read my mind and are happily surprised.😉

I really hope she will not turn this fantasy down, she is very into let me play out my fantasies on her. She always find it nice and exciting, but I am afraid that she would fear this step.

I do not know if she will feel like it is cheating. I certainly would not see it like that, this is purely sexual and nothing else. Kind of watching a porn movie IRL with your happy wife as the main role. We are happily married and have been together for 14 years. We always find ways to spice up our sex life, but I this might be a to big step for her.

My big two big question are:

1. How many in this forum would consider them as stags and not cucks? Would be nice to have similar minded to talk with in a own thread.

2. All you ladies out there who has stags, where you afraid you would feel like cheating and if so why where you convinced to try it out?

My wife and me always are able to talk about everything in a good way, but this fantasy is really important to me so I really want to prepare as much as possible to make it a success!🙂
Well, this can be debated until the end of time, but to the core the definition of a cuckold is a man who’s wife has sex with other men. Modern definitions have grown to include things like humiliation of the husband, chastity, fluffing and cleaning etc. I’m a traditionalist. My wife fucks other guys, therefore I am a cuckold. 🤷‍♂️
 
Stag here as well. We used to swing as a couple but rarely do that any more. Wife exclusively dates black guys now. I have some married gals I play smash with from time to time. I absolutely love watching the wife and her white friends bounce on black cocks. I also love jamming my meat hammer in other guys wives/daughters etc. To all my black friends out there, you're welcome lol. Several of the white girls I bang I've convinced to try BBC on the DL as well.
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I think that little pink dick convinced them.
 
I am a shared wife. My husband has arranged most of our events over the 20+ years.
We still have wonderful sex, but his fetish and joy is to watch me with other men.
I get to have fun and reap the rewards no mater what people call it.
He has never "joined in" or "cleaned up" after any event. He watches, takes pics/vids and occasionally attempts to direct.
When he is not present, I ask my playmate to film or I will set up a cam. My husband and I then watch later and enjoy each other.
Over the years, his video collection has become quite large and he carries a since of pride. He used to post them on various sites, but not so much now.
He has never ****** me to perform, nor have I "cheated" without his knowledge. This is the way we like it.
Enjoy life and Share your love...lol.
You two sound alot like us. I am not interested in getting into the stag vs cuckold thing but we do what we both want to to have fun. To each his own.
 
Well, this can be debated until the end of time, but to the core the definition of a cuckold is a man who’s wife has sex with other men. Modern definitions have grown to include things like humiliation of the husband, chastity, fluffing and cleaning etc. I’m a traditionalist. My wife fucks other guys, therefore I am a cuckold. 🤷‍♂️
Well, I want to talk to like minded and want a thread free of cleaning and stuff I find really strange. I like to avoid scrolling down in a other wise interestinh thread and out of the blue see a picture of a guy eating another guys cum or inserting another guys cock. I do not care if people like it or not, there choice, but I rather avoid seeing it.

Simple as that. I do not care about what it is called.
 
if your wife fucks other men you are being cuckolded and are a cuckold after that the sky is the limit or should i say servicing cock is the limit
A related word, first appearing in 1520, is wittol, which substitutes wit (in the sense of knowing) for the first part of the word, referring to a man aware of and reconciled to his wife's infidelity
 
For us there is very little difference between the two terms. We operate on a sliding scale, where we are both cucks and stags. Sometimes hubby performs as a bull and I do the fluffing clean up if needed, and others I am the hotwife and hubby does the fluffing and cleaning. We just enjoy the spectrum of the entire genre, depending on the nature of the others involved.

Sometimes its a young virile white or black male, sometimes its a old knurly white or black guy, and yet others it could be a hot Milf or a young 20's girl, and everything in between...we have a broad spectrum of encounters. The main deal is that everyone gets what the need from the encounter/session. So in the end its not about what label we put on it, its about having fun and getting off on it all. The most off putting is someone who says "I'm not doing that!" in mid flow and spoils the whole thing! Just be open to everything (unless its gross) and let the good times roll :lips: :lips: :lips:

HWJ and Pops
 
I am new to this and I am still "learning". A couple of days ago I learned a new term. Stag. Which I think is more accurate to my preferences. I am mot interested in any submissive actions. Just want to watch my wifes pussy and ass being stretched to the limit by a dominant BBC for her pleasure. None of all this close ups, touching other mens gear or cleaning up. Just watch and enjoy my wife getting pounded and well handled. I am also not into swinging, which alot seems to be. Satisfied with my huge tit sex godess and can not see my self with any other.

I have not yet introduced my wife to this fantasy of mine, still have to wait at least a year before I reveal it. We are not in a position to have advanced XXX-adventures right now, but next year there will be more time for that. We are "joking" around at home about BBC and I think my wife as usual already has read my mind. I want to introduce her to this in a dirty fashion, tie her up, blindfold her and play with her and end up putting a huge black dildo in her tight pussy when she is close to cum. So I hope she has not read my mind and are happily surprised.😉

I really hope she will not turn this fantasy down, she is very into let me play out my fantasies on her. She always find it nice and exciting, but I am afraid that she would fear this step.

I do not know if she will feel like it is cheating. I certainly would not see it like that, this is purely sexual and nothing else. Kind of watching a porn movie IRL with your happy wife as the main role. We are happily married and have been together for 14 years. We always find ways to spice up our sex life, but I this might be a to big step for her.

My big two big question are:

1. How many in this forum would consider them as stags and not cucks? Would be nice to have similar minded to talk with in a own thread.

2. All you ladies out there who has stags, where you afraid you would feel like cheating and if so why where you convinced to try it out?

My wife and me always are able to talk about everything in a good way, but this fantasy is really important to me so I really want to prepare as much as possible to make it a success!🙂
I think your post sums a lot of guys up, Me included not into playing with Bulls only interested in Wife’s pleasure.
Talking about it and planning, then watching Her get ready and going out without me.
Then the sweet ******* of waiting for Her to come home.
Or the late night phone call from Her that She is not coming home till the morning, Is exquisite *******.👌
 
I've noticed the "bulls" who run around looking to insult others have the smallest dicks and crappiest attitudes. As far as if the couple calls themselves a cuck couple, stag vixen or anything else it's a 100 percent their decision. If it's working for them its nobody else's concern.
 
I am a shared wife. My husband has arranged most of our events over the 20+ years.
We still have wonderful sex, but his fetish and joy is to watch me with other men.
I get to have fun and reap the rewards no mater what people call it.
He has never "joined in" or "cleaned up" after any event. He watches, takes pics/vids and occasionally attempts to direct.
When he is not present, I ask my playmate to film or I will set up a cam. My husband and I then watch later and enjoy each other.
Over the years, his video collection has become quite large and he carries a since of pride. He used to post them on various sites, but not so much now.
He has never ****** me to perform, nor have I "cheated" without his knowledge. This is the way we like it.
Enjoy life and Share your love...lol.
This is cool. How do I get started
 
Well, I want to talk to like minded and want a thread free of cleaning and stuff I find really strange. I like to avoid scrolling down in a other wise interestinh thread and out of the blue see a picture of a guy eating another guys cum or inserting another guys cock. I do not care if people like it or not, there choice, but I rather avoid seeing it.

Simple as that. I do not care about what it is called.
My god. Just stay off the site if you are this toxic and judgemental. If you want someone to fuck your wife you are submissive and a cuckold...so what? Coming on here and calling variations of the theme "really strange" and making others feel like ******* that don't align with your own exact turn ons is just you being an asshole.
 
I think RangerCuck is simply pointing out the definition of the term rather than redefining so as to avoid ego bruising.
When my we were still swinging my husband never thought of himself as a cuckold, he behaved much like people identifying as stags. The reason we stopped was the last bull we met insisted he be caged at our next meeting.
It’s only fair that a Husband let another Man fuck his Wife. Especially if said Husband enjoys the pleasures of other women himself. The Wife then becomes a higher sense of pleasure for the husband to enjoy with the mixture of emotions, lust and jealousy. Why jerk off to Porn when the Wife can become the Husbands Personal Pornstar and then have her all to himself at the same time?
 
I hate to break it to you guys, but as Jimsopen points out, stags ARE cuckolds, whether you elect to use that term or not. As it core, a cuckold is a man whose wife fucks other men with his acquiescence. The only real difference is that stags don't ensure the "humiliation" associated with what most people consider being a cuckold. So you can consider yourself "not a cuckold" all you want, but that doesn't change the definition of the term. If it makes you feel better about yourself to use the term "stag," then by all means do so, however.

The problem is that humans don't fit into neat little categories. If you want your wife to fuck other guys by definition you are cuckold. What some seem to be saying here is that they are somehow superior because they are Homophobic Cuckolds. Is that the definition of Stag?

I would also be willing to bet that the original poster will change dramatically if this ever changes from a fantasy to reality.

We've been swingers for many years. We've changed a lot over the years. It was all couples when we started. I quickly realized that I loved fucking black men. We live at nude resorts about 4 months a year. My husband is in great shape and attracts a lot of female attention. The problem is I'm not attracted to their out if shape husband's with tiny cocks. As our swing life has evolved we have occasional FMF threesomes when my husband's girlfriend's husband's are not at the resort. I'm very bisexual, and more than happy to join the party. We have dinner parties ever Sunday at this resort. Last Sunday we blindfolded one if of friends when her husband was out of town. Then we all, 3 women and 2 men played with her bringing her to multiple orgasms.

I do agree that a lot of what is discussed on here for me is pretty crazy. I'm guessing most of it is fantasy, but I'm also sure there are some who want to be owned and told what to do. As long as their actions don't affect me,
why should I care?

So what do you call my husband? He is by definition cuckold. He also has lots of pussy offered to him regularly. I don't know that it matters, but he does share his girls with me and our friends. Then again what difference does it make? He is living life the way he wants to.
 
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