For first time not present
But ideally u need one regular bull that the hubbie meets
An then youd have hubbie pear in corner watching
Should the husband be present or not present for the first time?
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But ideally u need one regular bull that the hubbie meets
An then youd have hubbie pear in corner watching
You can’t make a first impression on the second time so the very first time has to be as close to perfect as I can be.
My opinion and I truly believe the first time a married wife will be in bed with a new lover after years with the same man she should be with him alone.
The most exciting sex a married wife will ever experience is feeling someone brand new in a bed all alone while her husband is at work and has know idea… these are just plane truths.
So that first time is important to have her feel that excitement…even if your in the other room just listening make sure the door is closed and they have their privacy together…. It’s just to much pressure with the room full … she may even have a hard time enjoying it.
Your wife will be much more relaxed happy and very excited when that door closes and you’re waiting in the living room for them to come out … even better go for a drive and return hours later.
I guarantee if you ask her when he leaves “ do you want to see him again?” Her answer will be “ yes “
My opinion and I truly believe the first time a married wife will be in bed with a new lover after years with the same man she should be with him alone.
The most exciting sex a married wife will ever experience is feeling someone brand new in a bed all alone while her husband is at work and has know idea… these are just plane truths.
So that first time is important to have her feel that excitement…even if your in the other room just listening make sure the door is closed and they have their privacy together…. It’s just to much pressure with the room full … she may even have a hard time enjoying it.
Your wife will be much more relaxed happy and very excited when that door closes and you’re waiting in the living room for them to come out … even better go for a drive and return hours later.
I guarantee if you ask her when he leaves “ do you want to see him again?” Her answer will be “ yes “
We tried the "her alone" thing once , neither of us liked it at all. Of course she enjoyed herself but it just wasn't the same. That's not to say she doesn't gets some alone time with the stud, especially on the first meeting...but I'm always close at-hand
and will eventually enter the room to watch & join in!
and will eventually enter the room to watch & join in!This is something we do together. I would not be cool with her seeing a guy without me.
It's probably true she could let go and enjoy it more without fear of me seeing something she dosent want me to see.
Our routine kinda changes. After we get done it's awkward for me, he gets dressed, she walks him to the door for a goodnight kiss. That has changed to them going one more round in the livingroom without me. One night I looked in on them, he was literally pounding her butt hole. She has had anal from him and me but always asks that it's slow. So I'm not there and she's taking it hard in the butt no problem. I often wonder how different she might be without me watching.
Did you want to be? How did it feel watching?
Agreed
stubbyhubby
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I was present the first time, but not in the room. They were in the bedroom while I waited on the couch, but I could hear everything including her telling him to cum in her, something I was never allowed to do.
No one replied to your message so I will. It must have been very intense watching Nellie get fucked for the first time. Was he a black man?
My wife and I had agreed that I had to be there the first time so we booked a hotel in my name. Our baby care ended up cancelling and my wife and her bull had such a strong sexual tension built that I encouraged her to go solo. I ended up driving her there, checking her into the room as it was under my name and leaving. Her bull showed up and spent the entire night and the next morning fucking her longer and better than I could. The anxieties of not being there the first time was a lot but getting the first pictures and videos with her taking him made me know it was the right decision. 7 or 8 visits later to him were kind of in the same scheduling dilemma where I haven’t been able to be there at all and I’m very content with it because she’s getting experiences that she deserves
He was! Her choice for her first man in 2 decades. Turns out, she had dated a black guy in college a couple times but they never had sex and she always wondered. She no longer wonders and is totally hooked. In our bed at this minute with her latest younger BBC BF.
We block our thoughts and just let things happen
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