Done it many times to come round and surprise herShould I text my wife’s ex lover? He has been trying to meet up with her but she wouldn’t go alone last night while we were having sex. I told her to go meet up with him. She has a free night Saturday night told her she can text him or I can text him should I reach out and let him know I talk to him and tell him? She says be careful telling him things because he will do it.