If I could offer any advice or words of encouragement, it is this. Just make sure that the Man you choose, the Bull or Lover, is someone who is excellent or highly attuned communication skills. The biggest obstacle that I encounter with new couples is that they have talked to many guys before me, and all of them just wanted to have sex.
Once you are experienced, yes that is exactly what you are looking for, but for your first couple times, you will need a man that has the capacity to talk, communicate and find out how both the woman and man are doing? Are they comfortable? what are they nervous about? And afterward, is everything ok? Did they enjoy it? What didnt they enjoy?
Not all sexual experiences are mind-blowing the first time, but that doesnt mean it was fun or exciting.
You mean for dating?