Question to the couples: what brought you into the lifestyle? Were you a swinger couple? a boring sex life? a threesome? interracial porn?
Mrs Blonde PAWG was the Participation Certificate with a soda stain on it after the ex prior to her (who it'd taken a year to date regularly, bellydancer, bi-racial white/indigenous, absolutely gorgeous, funny, engaging, endlessly sexy, superbad piece) bailed over having a FB with other girls as friends because no matter how amazing, there's always that deep insecurity and jealousy.
One late Halloween night, she black clam-jammed the whole bar of younger, drunker, sluttier dressed, way more single white girls sat around moping. 3 guys (friends of a friend) all took the lower odds and were all up on Mrs BP when I was in the bathroom. Came back in and saw them, and I'd bought them drinks, funneled girls at them, talked them up to the bangin' bartender, etc all night.
I'm from a real hood in a major metropolis full of diversity and I've had natural curvy blonde girls w/me or gfs get hollered at when they weren't with me in a moment, and I've had countless hot white girls so I'm not jealous or insecure, and I'm anti-racist AF. So I thought for a second as they were all 3 up and around her on her barstool hanging on her every word, she shouts my name when I get back to the barroom she was in, in a moment of quick-take-response I wasn't mad and frankly proud.
Thought about it a sec, settled on response "Play Erotic City and get her freaking me and give homies some cheap thrills then, too, see whats what" but they'd immediately scattered and pouted in the corner. All they had to do was ask if we share, or just stay and be friendly and it would have have been me serving dessert (probably), or not go pout then play weird sh1t on the room's speakers like they were bigmad or like I was the grim reaper of fun.
Their loss(es), but that moment gave me testosterone like king kong on a roidrage, it was crazy, it was cool, I felt cheated outta sharing her, found this community right away so as to get a do-over and the Mrs was excited by all of it. Took a minute but we verified. Fast fwd and she's confessed a lot of secrets, lol.
Just picturing splitting her off and tagging out got me male multiple orgasms, came 6x a day, etc. HIGH testosterone naturally, HOT sex, she loves the porn, and the guide has worked to get a yes out of her every step.