We have an open marriage. I get about 95% of the benefits and most of that is with BBCs. I don't want him to be humiliated but I'm toying with the thought of locking him up just while I'm gone. I almost never bring them to our house. He doesn't know I'm thinking about this so I don't know how he'd take it. So, any thoughts on the general idea and how I should broach it to him?