Pawg Hotwife in training

[mrenigma711]

My wife is willing to explore hotwifing with me. As of now, I have not shared her and it's still just a fantasy we're exploring.

We use a BBC dildo in the bedroom, but she doesn't like watching porn. She is somewhat conservative and has a stance against it.

She's stated that one of the reasons is that she thinks it will make her really want it. However I feel like IR porn is the next logical step. Either that or to take her to a club where there are black men so she can dance and grind with them while I watch.

Any advice on next steps? We've made it this far, just don't want to be too pushy but want to advance slowly.

 

[Budda623]

My wife is willing to explore hotwifing with me. As of now, I have not shared her and it's still just a fantasy we're exploring.

We use a BBC dildo in the bedroom, but she doesn't like watching porn. She is somewhat conservative and has a stance against it.

She's stated that one of the reasons is that she thinks it will make her really want it. However I feel like IR porn is the next logical step. Either that or to take her to a club where there are black men so she can dance and grind with them while I watch.

Any advice on next steps? We've made it this far, just don't want to be too pushy but want to advance slowly.

Yea man. That’s a delicate situation. The most important thing is to be patient. But I’d continue to try to get her to watch the ir porn because she already gave you the answer. She knows if she watches it she’d be turned on and that’s really what she wants. Just have the porn ready to go and in the middle of you and her playing with the bbc dildo turn it on. And let her watch it and let her take control of the dildo while you encourage her verbally in her ear. and once she cums a few times that way. She’ll become use to it and want it more.. let me know how it turns out. But that’s the move. Trust me

 

[mrenigma711]

Yea man. That’s a delicate situation. The most important thing is to be patient. But I’d continue to try to get her to watch the ir porn because she already gave you the answer. She knows if she watches it she’d be turned on and that’s really what she wants. Just have the porn ready to go and in the middle of you and her playing with the bbc dildo turn it on. And let her watch it and let her take control of the dildo while you encourage her verbally in her ear. and once she cums a few times that way. She’ll become use to it and want it more.. let me know how it turns out. But that’s the move. Trust me

Thank you. I have done that, I have some videos lined up for that exact situation that I can turn on when I get the green light. I’ve picked just 1 on 1 softer IR where the girl kinda looks like her, and the guy is the kind of guy she likes.

So far I’ve had her close her eyes and imagine a bbc fucking her while I’ve encouraged her in her ear. She came very quickly. I think I may do that a handful more times. But you’re right, need to be patient.

 

[Budda623]

Thank you. I have done that, I have some videos lined up for that exact situation that I can turn on when I get the green light. I’ve picked just 1 on 1 softer IR where the girl kinda looks like her, and the guy is the kind of guy she likes.

So far I’ve had her close her eyes and imagine a bbc fucking her while I’ve encouraged her in her ear. She came very quickly. I think I may do that a handful more times. But you’re right, need to be patient.

Definitely patients as well as consistency. But not pushy. Your right there. I can feel it I’ve been there so many times with women it’s almost full proof. And you said something that lets me know for sure it’s gonna happen for you…. You said the movie you’ve selected has “the kind of guy she likes”. So that’s it she has a “type” of black guy she likes. So that tells me. That in her head. She already fucked multiple BBC’s. So it’s pretty much a wrap. Man. I sure wish I was the guy. Because there’s a lucky black bastard out there that has no clue he’s about to get very lucky in the near future. Good times mate

 

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

My wife is willing to explore hotwifing with me. As of now, I have not shared her and it's still just a fantasy we're exploring.

We use a BBC dildo in the bedroom, but she doesn't like watching porn. She is somewhat conservative and has a stance against it.

She's stated that one of the reasons is that she thinks it will make her really want it. However I feel like IR porn is the next logical step. Either that or to take her to a club where there are black men so she can dance and grind with them while I watch.

Any advice on next steps? We've made it this far, just don't want to be too pushy but want to advance slowly.

Did you read the guide?

 

[CJ BlkDom]

It's best u get her to watch IR porn the amateur ******* not the pro *******! Show her women JUST like her. Home videos and ******* like that with white women and black men! If u guys are on this site looking 4 advice, IR amateur porn is the best way to go. Or like u stated, take her to a club and let her get loose, put a few shots into her and get some willing Black Men to dance with her...Try them 2 options and then see which one works best and go from there

 

[mrenigma711]

Did you read the guide?

Are you referring to the idiots guide to hotwifing?

 

[mrenigma711]

It's best u get her to watch IR porn the amateur ******* not the pro *******! Show her women JUST like her. Home videos and ******* like that with white women and black men! If u guys are on this site looking 4 advice, IR amateur porn is the best way to go. Or like u stated, take her to a club and let her get loose, put a few shots into her and get some willing Black Men to dance with her...Try them 2 options and then see which one works best and go from there

Might have to side step the IR porn and try again later.

I’ve been discussing it with her frequently and openly and she’s more willing to try other things which is surprising cause it seems like a jump.

She likes the idea of a full body massage from a hot black guy, she thinks that sounds hot. She is also willing to go dancing. She’s gotten warmed up to that idea, she’s told me she’s getting more and more into it as she keeps “entertaining the idea” of trying bbc.

I also made a comment about her getting on a dating app and she sounded like she might actually try that too, however her biggest concern is people in our town recognizing her.

In talking to her, I think she would prefer to have a consistent, reliable sexual relationship with a bull over just one off play sessions. She likes the idea of going further and further after each “date”. I think this would build a lot of excitement for her, if that makes sense?

I think she might be ready to slowly start chatting with some black guys. Any app recommendations?

Also, any thoughts on how to properly move forward with the full body massage with happy ending are appreciated.

We have an anniversary coming up I can plan something for.

 

[CJ BlkDom]

You know, if I was you, I'd go hard in the paint(figure of speech) and get a suitable Black King 4 that body massage action, yes this is a big step in yalls marriage, However life goes 4wards and never backwards...Like u don't have ANY black friends? Or even a possible co-worker? I mean we are Black Men, not jackasses, find him or them and sit them down and put it to them str8 with no chasers and see how u fair out. IF u are in grind mode to see you and ur wife's fantasies come true? Go and get it! Be the tough cuck and go hard 4 what u want for ur wifey! Yea, she may not want to watch porn for now but it's definitely on the horizon. I don't know anybody in this weird ass lifestyle who DOESN'T watch IR porn to get things started Good luck

 

[mrenigma711]

You know, if I was you, I'd go hard in the paint(figure of speech) and get a suitable Black King 4 that body massage action, yes this is a big step in yalls marriage, However life goes 4wards and never backwards...Like u don't have ANY black friends? Or even a possible co-worker? I mean we are Black Men, not jackasses, find him or them and sit them down and put it to them str8 with no chasers and see how u fair out. IF u are in grind mode to see you and ur wife's fantasies come true? Go and get it! Be the tough cuck and go hard 4 what u want for ur wifey! Yea, she may not want to watch porn for now but it's definitely on the horizon. I don't know anybody in this weird ass lifestyle who DOESN'T watch IR porn to get things started Good luck

We just moved out here so no black friends out here in rural Kansas.

You were right though. I got her to watch IR porn for the first time tonight while she used her bbc dildo. She came a couple times.

She was even asking me how it would work, logistically if she wanted to set up play dates, find a suitable bbc, etc. She even got on some dating apps.

I’m still kind of in shock.

 

[BiSubCuck]

We just moved out here so no black friends out here in rural Kansas.

You were right though. I got her to watch IR porn for the first time tonight while she used her bbc dildo. She came a couple times.

She was even asking me how it would work, logistically if she wanted to set up play dates, find a suitable bbc, etc. She even got on some dating apps.

I’m still kind of in shock.

She is ready! Im excited for you both in reading all this. What a great girl you have! I hope she gets her first BBC experience real soon and you are both addicted to the experience

 

[CJ BlkDom]

We just moved out here so no black friends out here in rural Kansas.

You were right though. I got her to watch IR porn for the first time tonight while she used her bbc dildo. She came a couple times.

She was even asking me how it would work, logistically if she wanted to set up play dates, find a suitable bbc, etc. She even got on some dating apps.

I’m still kind of in shock.

Ur welcome

 

[plague23]

Ready to stretch a milf

 

[mrenigma711]

The animated gifs were a good way to bridge the gap. I would have her go start playing with her bbc dildo and sent her several animated gifs. She was cumming in no time. Almost too quick

 

[Blonde Wife PAWG]

Are you referring to the idiots guide to hotwifing?

Yes, exactly. Very sorry didn't see this.

Our dynamic is a little different so its not a note-for-note instruction manual, but lot of the steps and structure are helpful.

 

[Tyrone_BigCawk]

Here's the guide and it's very well done
Thread 'Hotwife in Training' https://www.blacktowhite.net/hotwife-in-training-guide/

 

[southerhunters]

My wife is willing to explore hotwifing with me. As of now, I have not shared her and it's still just a fantasy we're exploring.

We use a BBC dildo in the bedroom, but she doesn't like watching porn. She is somewhat conservative and has a stance against it.

She's stated that one of the reasons is that she thinks it will make her really want it. However I feel like IR porn is the next logical step. Either that or to take her to a club where there are black men so she can dance and grind with them while I watch.

Any advice on next steps? We've made it this far, just don't want to be too pushy but want to advance slowly.

That’s what me and my wife is doing I bought her a 9inch bbc dildo and we play around with it all the time

 

[mrenigma711]

We actually had to take a break in the bbc training because she’s really sore from getting stretched out.

We did almost 2 full weeks of her bbc dildo training.

Some sessions involved her looking at animated gifs while others I just had her use her imagination and tell me what she was thinking about (this was a good way for me to discover what aspects about this in particular turns her on the most).

The animated gifs were great too because they weren’t too hardcore enough to turn her away (she’s not a fan of porn). But the repetition of them looping, + no sound, was able to let her really zone out and get into it and focus on the things that turn her on.

I could tell the visuals left an impression on her. My favorite is when she lets out a breathy “fuck yeah” while she’s watching a bbc pound out a girl and her imagining it’s her.