Oh how we change

James J

Male
From
MA, US
So how many of you ladies when growing up ever thought that you would be taking another man into your marriage bed?
Or having sexual relationships other than your husband?
Was it a 'White Wedding' day for you when everything had to be perfect?
Did you think that at this time in your life you'd be allowing a black cock to fuck and cum in you?

The transition of a woman (and honestly a couple) is amazing as we get older. What used to be off the table is wide open to try.
So many are done with the mundane life and just want to live.

For myself, I never saw this as being a long term part of my life. However it fits me perfect.

Always happy to be a part of it.

J
 
You’ve expressed it well! Thanks for opening the conversation.

Never did either of us realize we would be here now, our sex lives never better, a connection now bonded more deeply from being fucked and owned by superior black men.

One very nice aspect is the friendships this has fostered. We get caught up in the physicality and don’t talk about the friendships with these men I label as Bulls. They are much morethan that. I have true affection and passion with these the few Bulls I meet with occasionally.

I had dated a biracial man for five years starting in high school, so it was not so far fetched that I am where I am today regarding sex with black men, but of course I never imagined it as part of triad. But cucky, an ‘alpha intellectual’ who thought he could fuck is now my beta bitch who sucks BBC. I am particularly proud of that transformation. It took some time to break him down and I love how grateful he is now!!!
 
I introduced my wife to Black cock 10 years ago when we were still dating. She had never experienced a Black lover and had never heard of cuckolding. She was hooked immediately. It became an integral part of our marriage. Her transformation has been amazing to watch. She became more dominant over me. Eventually she only wanted Black cock inside of her and I was relegated to providing oral service only. She began to insist on more dominant Black men until finally she wanted to be Black-owned. We really love living the Black cock lifestyle.
 
I remember being younger and so damn jealous. Now? Complete opposite. Such a huge turn on having other guys checking out my wife. Even to the point of being open and expressing how much it turns me on to her and that I want her to enjoy herself as we “only live once”. Now even dabbling in her being a “hotwife”. Crazy how life experiences change you and how you feel. I went from “don’t even look at her” to “sharing is caring”! Lol
 
I'm a 51 year old divorced male. Back when I got married, I never, ever would have thought the idea of this kind of lifestyle would turn me on. I was young and jealous. I got divorced 15 years ago, and we never talked about anything like this. This has really just come to me over the past 3-4 years, honestly. I started liking interracial porn when I first got the internet a bit over 20 years ago....but I suppose my mind progressed to the idea that it would be hot to see someone who was with me doing this. Still hasn't happened, though...
 
I never thought I would have sex outside my marriage. But thinking back to my "wilder" days, it should have occurred to me that it would happen. I was pretty sexually wild before getting married. Our marriage evolved into sharing and swinging just a couple of years into our marriage. Being in the lifestyle suited us and drew us closer. As we continued to share and be at parties the idea of being with a Black man intrigued us both until we finally decided to just do it. We have been hooked every since. Our relationship has changed and for the better. We are both very happy and are Black only.
 
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