You just want us to cheat on our husband's then right?I've been using this site for almost 10 years( had account before this one) and there has been an dramatic increase in white males on here. There needs to be an understanding of your role in this lifestyle. You are simply a spectator, while black men and white women are the main components. If you were not present it would still be interracial sex, so to come in packs on this site and use dozens of shady tactics to get off on and associate yourself with something that has nothing to do with you is ruining the site. The black men that are not bisexual here do not want to talk to you, the only reason you are not automatically banned is because the site administrators don't exclude you is so they don't discrimination against anyone.
After 10 years on this site, I would think you would have moved past this issue ...It turns me on that he goes on here and finds guys he is ok with me seeing....