Ohbull,
My name is Jay.In my opinion, 2 is max.You gave them too many chances.I get it, some times we as males want to Fuck the other guys gf/wife.Move on, there will be others.
Unfortunately there are couples, who do not respect are time.They look at us as a dime dozen.They probably cancelled last minute, huh??? God forbid, if we cancelled on them.They would have your name All over B2W.
Wish you luck and you Will find another couple.Have a great day..
Vegasjay
My name is Jay.In my opinion, 2 is max.You gave them too many chances.I get it, some times we as males want to Fuck the other guys gf/wife.Move on, there will be others.
Unfortunately there are couples, who do not respect are time.They look at us as a dime dozen.They probably cancelled last minute, huh??? God forbid, if we cancelled on them.They would have your name All over B2W.
Wish you luck and you Will find another couple.Have a great day..
Vegasjay
2 max. Life happens, but a second time? Come on. I would do anything to get my wife to do a meet up. If we had to cancel, i’d surely have to make it up to the bull.
Did you talk to them on the phone or just post though here?
Strike 3 and you're out! You have been very generous up to now, but three cancels would be past my limit for sure.
Amen
Phone, FaceTime
only once
2 . I know life get in the way of things sometimes, but more than that is to many.
BrooklynBBC4U
Male
I agree. Only once. The only exception is if they agreed to your terms for a second meet. If they don't respect you, you shouldn't return the favor.
Heartandsoul
Male
They give you any reasons? Were they valid? Its probably a case by case thing. Use your best judgment buddy. Remember a lot of us on here do have family and jobs so yeah life can happen. But I totally understand your viewpoint. If I were you maybe just cool down in the meet up talk with this particular couple for awhile but still keep contact? Good luck.
Flcouple38
Couple
We did the 3 strike rule, we are lowering it to 2 emergencies or issues. We have had too many guys have last minute things, forget, or go awol day of and have tons of excuses. Many guys like to play alpha and can do this but many cannot. I am sure it is same for women and couples as well. Honestly guys being flakes and pussies have almost at times made hubby and I leave this lifestyle. Some of those pussies are from this site but wont call them out.
We have pretty strict rules about no shows. In the age of cellphones it should be no problem to at least call/text to say something has come up and you cant make it. We understand that things change, but don't contact us the next day and say" sorry" after we went through the trouble of arriving to the bar/club on time. You had your chance. We all have busy schedules so it take a little time and effort to arrange a date that works for everyone. If we go through the trouble to arrange a date we WILL be there. Time is too precious.
If we had a time and place set up and I went there with them no showing, one and done. If they said they would contact me with a time and place but never got to it for whatever reason, I'd give them another chance because at least I didn't get dressed and leave the house.
