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We had some body flake out on us from this site I have feeling that his fake. Because any posting people post his always going to be in that town.
You shouldn't be afraid to call him out. It's not like you would be subject to any lawsuit. He's just a screen name. Put them on blast.
 
We did the 3 strike rule, we are lowering it to 2 emergencies or issues. We have had too many guys have last minute things, forget, or go awol day of and have tons of excuses. Many guys like to play alpha and can do this but many cannot. I am sure it is same for women and couples as well. Honestly guys being flakes and pussies have almost at times made hubby and I leave this lifestyle. Some of those pussies are from this site but wont call them out.
You should call them out and save someone else the trouble of wasting their time with flakes. Put them on Blast!!
 
We have the two rule as well. We have ended up having to cancel meeting a guy a couple of times but have always tried to let them know before hand that something came up. I will also check in with the guy the day of the meeting and also a couple of hours before and then text them just before meeting. It is interesting to me though how many guys will say they will meet and then the day of the meeting will disappear.
 
We came to the conclusion that it has to be a picture collector, and because of that our guards go up and then you set some crazy guideliness for the next candidate which some times might make a connection even more complicated for the next single guy

We have the two rule as well. We have ended up having to cancel meeting a guy a couple of times but have always tried to let them know before hand that something came up. I will also check in with the guy the day of the meeting and also a couple of hours before and then text them just before meeting. It is interesting to me though how many guys will say they will meet and then the day of the meeting will disappear.
 
Flakes are a turn off and waste of time, money and gas. Imagine hosting at a hotel and your meeting is cancelled after a month or so of planning. Now you have a room to yourself and no one else in your area wants to meet
 
Over time, we've developed the following guidelines. You are given one opportunity for a rescheduling due to unforeseen developments/circumstances. If you don't show up for the second meeting, that's it. We're done. It's pretty simple; if you've changed your mind, be a man and a gentleman and say so. No offense taken. We seek and play with black gentlemen, preferably, for the long-term. We desire quality over quantity and demand respect for our time as we respect the gentleman's time. Part of that respect we demand centers around showing up and being honest.
 
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