New to this and need advice

So, she and I have been role playing about about this for a few years now. We started watching porn of course. That progressed to talking dirty in bed. That led to talking about it outside of the bedroom. She make comments about men now without any shame. Of course, I encourage the honesty.

She’s told me sees black men now and imagines them naked. We have also started messaging with men on kik. In the last month, her orgasm rate has increased dramatically. Just recently, she messaged on Kik and shared nudes with a very hung black guy while I ate her pussy for about 30 minutes. She came hard.

Yesterday, we had a pretty open conversation. She was honest and said she wouldn’t mind having sex with another man and she is really curious about big black cock in particular. However, she she said her concern was that she was scared that she might begin to think about it too much of it happens. Almost like she’s afraid she will like it too much and that could be a problem.

I know there are a lot of experienced people on here. I’m a long time lurker and first time poster. Does anyone have any advice?
By far the most important thing is that your relationship is 100% solid and that this is only a small recreational part of your life. I must say I am concerned that she stated she might end up liking it too much. I would recommend having prolonged discussions on this issue... I have done Swinging with my wife and we can take it or leave it. In fact, she never even brings it up or suggest it until I initiate the topic and she is very comfortable with that because it is a very tiny part of her desires, and is far overpowered buy her devotion to me. if you have any doubts, I would recommend not doing it. Or perhaps you could try one time with the promise you both will Wait wait awhile until the next time until you both are perfectly comfortable that your relationship will not be damaged.
 
Well, she’s stated that she wants bigger than me. I’m about 7.5” and 5.5” around, so I’m pretty sure I’m above average. She’s has smaller in the past and she doesn’t want to go back.

I’m not sure she’s into the cleaning up aspect of it either. But, of course, that’s something that I guess happens in the moment? We respect each other a lot, so I can’t see her wanting me to submit like that.
Believe me bro. She would love to see you jerking and sucking a BBC to get it ready for her horny pussy. They all want that.
 
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So, she and I have been role playing about about this for a few years now. We started watching porn of course. That progressed to talking dirty in bed. That led to talking about it outside of the bedroom. She make comments about men now without any shame. Of course, I encourage the honesty.

She’s told me sees black men now and imagines them naked. We have also started messaging with men on kik. In the last month, her orgasm rate has increased dramatically. Just recently, she messaged on Kik and shared nudes with a very hung black guy while I ate her pussy for about 30 minutes. She came hard.

Yesterday, we had a pretty open conversation. She was honest and said she wouldn’t mind having sex with another man and she is really curious about big black cock in particular. However, she she said her concern was that she was scared that she might begin to think about it too much of it happens. Almost like she’s afraid she will like it too much and that could be a problem.

I know there are a lot of experienced people on here. I’m a long time lurker and first time poster. Does anyone have any advice?
Hey girl ask away
 
That’s great advice. We have had a group text with a couple of very hung men. It’s gotten her off big time.

She was honest with me and said messaging a guy when I’m not around feels like cheating to her. I told her I didn’t mind, but she hasn’t shown a desire to do it...yet.
This. Work with your bull and try to get him to get your wife to lie.
 
So, she and I have been role playing about about this for a few years now. We started watching porn of course. That progressed to talking dirty in bed. That led to talking about it outside of the bedroom. She make comments about men now without any shame. Of course, I encourage the honesty.

She’s told me sees black men now and imagines them naked. We have also started messaging with men on kik. In the last month, her orgasm rate has increased dramatically. Just recently, she messaged on Kik and shared nudes with a very hung black guy while I ate her pussy for about 30 minutes. She came hard.

Yesterday, we had a pretty open conversation. She was honest and said she wouldn’t mind having sex with another man and she is really curious about big black cock in particular. However, she she said her concern was that she was scared that she might begin to think about it too much of it happens. Almost like she’s afraid she will like it too much and that could be a problem.

I know there are a lot of experienced people on here. I’m a long time lurker and first time poster. Does anyone have any advice?

there's a chance she might ike it more than *you* want her to like it. noone can say. question is do u think u can handle it?
 
there's a chance she might ike it more than *you* want her to like it. noone can say. question is do u think u can handle it?
Kasam se Noreen this is what I dream of, that she starts liking this lifestyle...my wife has always been submissive but I want her to take charge of this situation and get so much pleasure from it, as her pleasure is what gives me satisfaction
 
so how are things going now? if you have not already had your first encounter PM me I have some tips on a first time experience
 
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