I’m married and he’s single.
New...Excited and afraid
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Yeah that's definitely a complex. But, the longer you drag it on, the worse it will get. If your hubby doesn't know, at some point you should come clean. But, if you value your marriage more than the bull, you don't need to, unless your hubby is open and you know he can deal with it, otherwise, just cut it off with the bull and move on. Don't even try to fool yourself into thinking it will pass if you continue seeing him. Again, you have to decide what's the priority.
You’re right! And you’ve given me a lot to think about.
Absolutely.
I Dated two women from this website full-time. It's very hot when all parties involved are on the same page
In this lifestyle, sexual desire cannot be mixed with feelings or infatuations. It's the worst mistake a person can make...
And that everything must genuinely give way, no one in their right mind can give their personal data to anyone they meet online.
And that everything must genuinely give way, no one in their right mind can give their personal data to anyone they meet online.
Yes, I called her on the excess romance stuff but that's also who she is. Without the romantic connection it cannot be a go for her. So I was very clear and told her the things that were over the top and too much as far as my perspective and she did what we spoke of and prioritized us over them. We set boundaries but in that process until presented with issues being new to the game also means being naive to those potential issues. I'm sure we dodged a bullet but she is still sad but will get over it. He seemed like he could be the abusive type who showers with love and attention and then when anything is not perfect it's all 100% or 0%, no compromise at all.
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See @Kthebtrbbc it can happen!Absolutely.
I Dated two women from this website full-time. It's very hot when all parties involved are on the same page
Oh I didn’t doubt it can you just have to be on the same page and discuss itSee @Kthebtrbbc it can happen!
Smart man
He is indeedSmart man
Good. A snowbunny should always do what her Black Daddy says
Well, the saga took a new life. She ended up texting him back and apologized for making an ultimatum. She has since struck up a new way of being. The Mrs. And the guy are now back on track and they sweetly and confidently speak about their days. How much they miss one another, how excited they are to finally meet up. Last night she let him know that she would be able to stay with him in another week or so. He was very excited to hear it and is telling her how much they will enjoy their bonding. She finally ended up telling him that she trusts him enough now that she has zero doubts and will stay two nights if he is okay with it. I told her I'd cover for her to be able to do that. The first time is to be free of me entirely as they can connect without worry of outside world influence and the second night I am to be partly included. He spoke of how noce its going to be and slipping it in the next morning or middle of the night. I've asked her to ******* a condom on day 1 and if she feels like changing it up the next day then that's up to her. That gives her the power of small control and then a good surprise for him after and if he wakes her up grinding her then if she decides it's cool then maybe he can slide it in as he has dreamed of with her. She is like a little school girl. She's been awakened. She is ready to try new things, growing, and has said she's ready to be my and his little slut! She always used to feel like that was a bad and vulgar term and now she's embracing it. The Mrs. Is ready to try and be open to all kinds of things that she's been very conservatively closed to trying. She's not been a prude but the walls were built after a certain amount of sexual positions and fun, but those walls are falling down. She talked about going back out clubbing with us both and is excited to dress sexy all the way to slutty! I love when she dresses slutty, so damn hot!!! 
it's all getting hotter too.
Let me know if you have thoughts!
it's all getting hotter too.Let me know if you have thoughts!
Well, the saga took a new life. She ended up texting him back and apologized for making an ultimatum. She has since struck up a new way of being. The Mrs. And the guy are now back on track and they sweetly and confidently speak about their days. How much they miss one another, how excited they are to finally meet up. Last night she let him know that she would be able to stay with him in another week or so. He was very excited to hear it and is telling her how much they will enjoy their bonding. She finally ended up telling him that she trusts him enough now that she has zero doubts and will stay two nights if he is okay with it. I told her I'd cover for her to be able to do that. The first time is to be free of me entirely as they can connect without worry of outside world influence and the second night I am to be partly included. He spoke of how noce its going to be and slipping it in the next morning or middle of the night. I've asked her to ******* a condom on day 1 and if she feels like changing it up the next day then that's up to her. That gives her the power of small control and then a good surprise for him after and if he wakes her up grinding her then if she decides it's cool then maybe he can slide it in as he has dreamed of with her. She is like a little school girl. She's been awakened. She is ready to try new things, growing, and has said she's ready to be my and his little slut! She always used to feel like that was a bad and vulgar term and now she's embracing it. The Mrs. Is ready to try and be open to all kinds of things that she's been very conservatively closed to trying. She's not been a prude but the walls were built after a certain amount of sexual positions and fun, but those walls are falling down. She talked about going back out clubbing with us both and is excited to dress sexy all the way to slutty! I love when she dresses slutty, so damn hot!!!
it's all getting hotter too.Let me know if you have thoughts!
We’ve been on both sides of this. We’ve had lots of people ask for too much personal information…at least early in. Once we meet someone and decide to go further then I think there is a reasonable expectation to exchange info but there is some comfort in anonymity. If things don’t work out you really don’t want a stranger having a name. Especially as they already have numbers ( presuming that’s how they were texting ).
Don’t let one experience put you off. There are lots of respectful guys out there. The fact that this one gave an ultimatum probably tells you it wouldn’t be a good fit in the long run. People have to progress at their own comfort level. If pushed ( either person…hubby, wife or single ) then can almost guarantee there will be regrets if you go any further.
Don’t let one experience put you off. There are lots of respectful guys out there. The fact that this one gave an ultimatum probably tells you it wouldn’t be a good fit in the long run. People have to progress at their own comfort level. If pushed ( either person…hubby, wife or single ) then can almost guarantee there will be regrets if you go any further.
Some romance is great. Be careful. Sounds like she was upset that the conversation went south with the exchange of information issue. Imagine she starts seeing the guy and then something else happens that causes them to stop. I can guess she’ll be more devastated.Well, the saga took a new life. She ended up texting him back and apologized for making an ultimatum. She has since struck up a new way of being. The Mrs. And the guy are now back on track and they sweetly and confidently speak about their days. How much they miss one another, how excited they are to finally meet up. Last night she let him know that she would be able to stay with him in another week or so. He was very excited to hear it and is telling her how much they will enjoy their bonding. She finally ended up telling him that she trusts him enough now that she has zero doubts and will stay two nights if he is okay with it. I told her I'd cover for her to be able to do that. The first time is to be free of me entirely as they can connect without worry of outside world influence and the second night I am to be partly included. He spoke of how noce its going to be and slipping it in the next morning or middle of the night. I've asked her to ******* a condom on day 1 and if she feels like changing it up the next day then that's up to her. That gives her the power of small control and then a good surprise for him after and if he wakes her up grinding her then if she decides it's cool then maybe he can slide it in as he has dreamed of with her. She is like a little school girl. She's been awakened. She is ready to try new things, growing, and has said she's ready to be my and his little slut! She always used to feel like that was a bad and vulgar term and now she's embracing it. The Mrs. Is ready to try and be open to all kinds of things that she's been very conservatively closed to trying. She's not been a prude but the walls were built after a certain amount of sexual positions and fun, but those walls are falling down. She talked about going back out clubbing with us both and is excited to dress sexy all the way to slutty! I love when she dresses slutty, so damn hot!!!
Let me know if you have thoughts!
It sounds like she wants a poly relationship vs some extra dick. You some research on poly and see if there is any good advice on how to manage the feelings in that type of relationship. There are some good pod casts out there.
