Hello all,
My lady had a delivery in the North Bay Bay area Cali, and was approached by a man, also a big strong black man that captivated her. He was sweet and kind but also very forward in his thoughts toward her. He said Yummy several times and showed intense interest.
My lady put out a feeler after addressing it with me about talking more about the initial meeting to see about the interest. She felt compelled and excited to push forward with talks and possibilities and began with talks and texts. Although I am not a cuck, I want her to have some free reign and develop a connection to have a long-term boyfriend.
He lives an hour away and the first meet-up was supposed to be last night. The two texted hundreds of times daily and he was romantic, sweet, kind, and alluring. He'd send her songs he liked. He told her he was nearly exclusively into white ladies and was drawn to her shyness.
She's a VERY cautious lady and wanted to be sure of who he is and send it to me. He refused to give her his last name as she made the statement about her wanting me to have it. He seemed flustered and lashed out a bit. She has been crying and devastated since those talks. The Mrs. was refusing to meet up with someone unwilling to give up a piece of information. They had a little disagreement and he seemed to push for an ultimatum, not 100% but appearing to be one, of come tonight or don't come at all.
I have explained there are cultural differences in people of different ethnicities and their way of being can be considered brash or overly forward. Tried also to explain that cultural differences can actually be enlightening and empowering for all who open up to seeing things from others perspectives. The unfortunate part is he does not communicate well on those levels and his communication alone could help with the control aspect she needs for safety and to ensure he makes her feel comfortable with being open and honest but also not controlling.
She is devastated. We have had more sex in the last two weeks then in the last 8 months due to some traumatic life events in both our families. This has woken her up. She's smiling, she's loving the attention, she's wanting to explore and be explored. She's voracious and wet non-stop.
Please send me your thoughts to either help her move on or why to continue?
My lady had a delivery in the North Bay Bay area Cali, and was approached by a man, also a big strong black man that captivated her. He was sweet and kind but also very forward in his thoughts toward her. He said Yummy several times and showed intense interest.
My lady put out a feeler after addressing it with me about talking more about the initial meeting to see about the interest. She felt compelled and excited to push forward with talks and possibilities and began with talks and texts. Although I am not a cuck, I want her to have some free reign and develop a connection to have a long-term boyfriend.
He lives an hour away and the first meet-up was supposed to be last night. The two texted hundreds of times daily and he was romantic, sweet, kind, and alluring. He'd send her songs he liked. He told her he was nearly exclusively into white ladies and was drawn to her shyness.
She's a VERY cautious lady and wanted to be sure of who he is and send it to me. He refused to give her his last name as she made the statement about her wanting me to have it. He seemed flustered and lashed out a bit. She has been crying and devastated since those talks. The Mrs. was refusing to meet up with someone unwilling to give up a piece of information. They had a little disagreement and he seemed to push for an ultimatum, not 100% but appearing to be one, of come tonight or don't come at all.
I have explained there are cultural differences in people of different ethnicities and their way of being can be considered brash or overly forward. Tried also to explain that cultural differences can actually be enlightening and empowering for all who open up to seeing things from others perspectives. The unfortunate part is he does not communicate well on those levels and his communication alone could help with the control aspect she needs for safety and to ensure he makes her feel comfortable with being open and honest but also not controlling.
She is devastated. We have had more sex in the last two weeks then in the last 8 months due to some traumatic life events in both our families. This has woken her up. She's smiling, she's loving the attention, she's wanting to explore and be explored. She's voracious and wet non-stop.
Please send me your thoughts to either help her move on or why to continue?